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    Too perfect????

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    That's how I feel about my relationship with DB. It's too perfect, and I am afraid to completley let down my guard.

    Like most here, my relationship with DB has been a whirlwind. It was like it's MEANT to be. Spent all our time together and fell fast and hard for one another. He always talks of how happy he'll be the day he can call me his fiance for real (if you don't recall, DB has not gotten the finalized divorce papers yet) and the day he'll be my husband. He can't wait until he can move DS and I to where he'll be stationed when he returns. He already considers himself "daddy" to DS. It's all just sooo perfect. Is it foolish of me to allow all of my eggs to stay in this basket.

    Not sure why I'm feeling like this today???? I love him and I want all these things too. I think it's just the distance, and some days the distance makes me unsure?????
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    I can relate, My So and I just kind of clicked instantly, my heart picked him, I didn't My only advice is to try to keep things realistic, and step down from cloud nine once in awhile and take a real life look around. If you are really meant to be slowing things down won't make any difference! Congrats on finding happiness!
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    I couldnt agree with you more. I seems like my DF is suffering from my past scars. I am just so scared of being hurt that I doubt everything, and I hate it

    I guess it really is possible to meet someone that wont eff you over like so many times in the past.

    I have so many fears in a relationship and he knows it. I let irrational thoughts go through my mind and none of it is even close to being true. I hate the way I think sometimes. Im always waiting for the bubble to burst.

    Sorry, this thread kinda hit home tonight

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    every time i feel like i should be having doubts, i just have to push them out of my head because i know they aren't really worth it and something that feels so right couldn't be wrong. i agree with coming down from cloud 9 and making sure things are ok, but i'm also a strong believer in following your heart instead of your head so much. good luck!

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    Same thing happened with dh. Every single egg went into one basket. Scared the hell outta me.

    Sometimes you gotta stop kicking and screaming and just go along with the ride.

    Without taking chances and putting yourself out there.. life gets boring quick.
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