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    Sex! (May be explicit!)

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    Hey all! Sorry I couldn't post this under pillow talk but I don't have enough posts to do that yet. I have a question that I'm sure many of you can answer.
    DB's homecoming is quickly approaching. Last time we talked on the phone he told me that when he got home he wanted to try some new things sexually, including anal sex. I'm not sure what to think about it. We tried once a long time ago, very painful and I swore I'd never do it again.
    This is something he really wants to try again, for whatever reason,lol.
    Any tips on how to make this more pleasureful? I want to be able to please him in everyway that I can...but man it hurt so bad the 1st time we tried that it feels like doing it again would be punishment! Please help!
    *sorry again that this is explicit*
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    Have you tried using lube? They have lubes out there that numb the area for you, making it less torturous for you. I hope that helps a little bit
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    well for me.. i get drunk first! jk ok maybe just a little... but i use A LOT A LOT A LOT of lube. and the first few times will hurt of course.. but you gotta try to relax and really not think about it
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    Ok Lots of lube, lots of alcohol

    No try getting a anal toy and start out there first, they make a bead like gel one that starts out small and get better.


    He cant just go at it and expect you to NOT to scream in pain.

    Take it in small amounts!
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    oops double post
    Last edited by FROGLOVE; 08-24-2007 at 12:36 AM. Reason: double post
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    lube lube lube, and you can always get a small toy for urself to practice with before moving up to the real thing (ive never tried it, but I have some friends who say it def. helped)
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    Quote Originally Posted by SailorWife2B0620 View Post
    lube lube lube, and you can always get a small toy for urself to practice with before moving up to the real thing (ive never tried it, but I have some friends who say it def. helped)
    yep thats how i did it. and just work through the pain. after a while it get numb and you dont notice anymores lol
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    Quote Originally Posted by Purplekittie View Post
    yep thats how i did it. and just work through the pain. after a while it get numb and you dont notice anymores lol
    kinky lol
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    lube, relax (most important thing!!), and take it very very very very slow
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    Try you being in control....so like spooning to where you get to set the pace and not him. Lube is good and so is relaxation. Anal is not supposed to be like rough sex (although some like it) more like slow melodic movements.
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