Hi all! So my boyfriend and I are new - I've known him for awhile, but we've been dating for two months and he's been deployed for one of them. We're still learning about each other and how we tick, but now we have to work with him being deployed as well. I don't know anything about the military so everything is foreign to me and I'm trying so hard to understand his life over there.

I know it's hard for him to be there, but he takes it out on me a lot and then I don't know how to talk about being happy when he's miserable.

Even though we're new, I love him and I can't imagine my life without him.

I'm new to being a milso and don't know how to handle being apart in so many ways.

Any advice?