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    reunited...

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    In September I posted a thread about the dissolution of my relationship. Things weren't going well with DB at the time, and I decided to call it quits. We kept in touch, and spoke often during our time apart. I dated a guy briefly, before realizing that we were just friends, and my heart was with my former boyfriend. In December, I messaged DB, and we decided to work things out. The time apart really put things into perspective for both of us, and helped aid our decision and determine what we really want from our relationship. We have worked out our kinks that led to our initial demise and are on solid foundation.

    And, we are now 'unofficially' planning a wedding. He has asked unofficially, but is planning a proposal.
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    so happy for you! You deserve it!
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    I'm glad you two were able to work things out, and are now planning a wedding! Congratulations!
    Deployment #1: Over!

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    I'm so happy for you! I was really surprised by your breakup. Glad you worked it out.
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    Aw, I'm so happy for you!!


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    Oh wow. This may sound harsh, and I'm sorry for that and I really hope things work out, but this blew me away to read. Back a few months ago when you posted about you guys splitting, he sounded like a real d-bag, and had some serious issues to work out. I'm floored that they could be fixed that quickly, I would be VERY wary if I were you. You owe to to Matty to make sure you're keeping HIS best interests in mind and making them a priority over your feelings for some guy.
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    Quote Originally Posted by BraveLilToaster View Post
    Oh wow. This may sound harsh, and I'm sorry for that and I really hope things work out, but this blew me away to read. Back a few months ago when you posted about you guys splitting, he sounded like a real d-bag, and had some serious issues to work out. I'm floored that they could be fixed that quickly, I would be VERY wary if I were you. You owe to to Matty to make sure you're keeping HIS best interests in mind and making them a priority over your feelings for some guy.
    For the record, Matthew's best interest will always be on the forefront. That should not even be questionable. In regards to my relationship, yes... there were some kinks. Like I said, we have worked on them. We went to counseling (and will continue to do so) to help us. I don't mind constructive criticism in the least, but you don't seem to offer that.
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    Congratulations!!!
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