I have no idea what you're asking but I hope you can move past it. Either the person will let it go and move forward or they won't.

My husband and I have both done shitty things to each other and he makes me furious sometimes, but it's not worth separating over. We sweep things under the rug when we need to and address them later or not at all. Sometimes things that are a big deal at the time are so minuscule a week or month down the road.