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    Husband gets wife pregnant. Leaves wife and first child for deployment. Comes back. Wife has second child. Wife finds out husband paid for escort service while on deployment. Pic and email proof. What would you personally do? Counseling? Divorce?
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    Husband gets wife pregnant. Leaves wife and first child for deployment. Comes back. Wife has second child. Wife finds out husband paid for escort service while on deployment. Pic and email proof. What would you personally do? Counseling? Divorce?

    I would get myself checked for STDs and I would leave him. To me, cheating is one thing (although, TBH, I would probably leave for cheating too), but to actually actively go out looking, find someone, pay them money that should be going to the family, to fuck them who knows how many times? HELL no. That is disrespectful to me, our family, our kids and is beyond disgusting.
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    I'd go to the doctor, get checked for STDs, pack all his stuff and say goodbye. I won't put up with cheating in my relationship.

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    I would get myself checked for STDs and I would leave him. To me, cheating is one thing (although, TBH, I would probably leave for cheating too), but to actually actively go out looking, find someone, pay them money that should be going to the family, to fuck them who knows how many times? HELL no. That is disrespectful to me, our family, our kids and is beyond disgusting.
    Exactly this .
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    Thinking about it more, I would also always wonder how many times he had done it that I didnt have proof of. Did he hire more throughout the deployment? Does he do this while at home? The more I think about it, the yuckier I would feel. And the paying for it is what skeeves me out the most. That is such an active way to cheat. Its not he got drunk at a bar and whoops, he decided to cheat, went out and paid for it with family money. Just yuck.
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    I agree with vino. It'd be difficult to leave somebody I have children with but there's just no way that guy could ever make me happy again. I'd be pissed off forever and never trust him again.
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    I agree with Vino as well.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Dr.VinoVet View Post
    Thinking about it more, I would also always wonder how many times he had done it that I didnt have proof of. Did he hire more throughout the deployment? Does he do this while at home? The more I think about it, the yuckier I would feel. And the paying for it is what skeeves me out the most. That is such an active way to cheat. Its not he got drunk at a bar and whoops, he decided to cheat, went out and paid for it with family money. Just yuck.
    Yeah, and the fact that he took pictures. The fact he wants to remember what he did would disgust me as well.

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    I would leave, he put you in danger and was a nasty ass...hell no


    People do that on my DH's ship all the time some even paid prostitutes in South Africa
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