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    Love Officially a DG now

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    Soooo...some of you have probably read (and likely been annoyed with) my previous posts analyzing what was going on with who I called "the boy." We were casually dating (as in hadn't talked about exclusivity or anything) before he deployed, and didn't talk about it before he left. So I have been confused for the past two months because we act like we're in a relationship. Well! I finally just let it out and it turns out he's been as confused as I am! Lol. But we were both too scared to bring it up in fear of how the other felt about it, him being deployed, etc. Apparently he's been exclusive with me (without letting me know, the dork) since the first date. (He says after that date he didn't feel the need or inclination to talk to or seek out another girl.) Although I have gone out on a few dates since he left, nothing physical or emotional happened, and as I told him I have essentially been emotionally exclusive with him (since how I felt prevented me even wanting to pursue anything with anyone else).

    ANYWAY! Lol...we're officially exclusive. I'm ridiculously excited about it, even though it sucks that he's still gone for 2-3 months or so. But we figure our relationship started out rather...ahem...physical...so this really lets us take a step back and get to know one another. And both of us are really liking what we're finding out. So, yeah! It may not be a big deal to people but I'm excited about it. And I want to tell people but don't want to be "that girl" who physically tells everyone. So I figured on here was a good way to do it! We aren't "facebook official" yet (I figure we'll wait for that until he's back and we make sure everything still clicks when we're actually in the same room. I have no doubts about it, but still). It doesn't matter though because we finally know what we are and where we stand.

    About damn time!
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    ....and see, communication is the key.
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    DH: Thank you. ME: For what, babe? DH: For being you.




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    I'm really glad you figured that out!
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    Glad you got it all straightened out and it turned out they way you wanted!
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    Yay!
    Glad you'll have some non-physical time to reconnect! That's important!
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    Thanks everyone!
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    That is so awesome! Happy for you! Congrats!
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    Congratulations! With my DB being away we've connected more than ever. It's going to be great for you guys as long as you can both stay positive over the distance
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