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    That conversation

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    When you started dating your SO, how did you know it was official? Was there a conversation where you discussed it and how long into the relationship was it? Did you just fall into it and it just happened?

    I'm being nosy and curious. I've been seeing a guy for a month now and things have been going great and we act just like a couple, but have never had a conversation about it. So I'm just curious how it went for others and how long things took and such.
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    He asked me to be his girlfriend. Sounds a bit juvenile maybe but it definitely left no room for doubt. It was the first time we met in person- we'd been talking online/on the phone for a few weeks, and I was seeing other people during that time.
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    He changed his fb status to 'in a relationship with.. ' and I had to approve it. Lol. It happened after about a month of dating.
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    I asked DH what we were, if we were friends or together. He looked at me and said, "I don't spend the night in the same bed as my friends". We hadn't actually at that point we'd just spent the night in the same bed


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    Quote Originally Posted by Amanduh View Post
    He changed his fb status to 'in a relationship with.. ' and I had to approve it. Lol. It happened after about a month of dating.
    About the same here.

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    He came out and said, "I don't know where you are at, but I don't plan on/feel any need to see anyone else - and I hope you feel the same." -- I did and we were exclusive from that point forward (it was one of those cliche' sunset walks on the beach when we had *the talk*)
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    He asked me to be his girlfriend. It happened after like 2 weeks.

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    Quote Originally Posted by FinallyMrsG View Post
    I asked DH what we were, if we were friends or together. He looked at me and said, "I don't spend the night in the same bed as my friends". We hadn't actually at that point we'd just spent the night in the same bed
    That's cute.

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    I had to ask DB. He just assumed that we were in a relationship. I was like "So when I introduce you to my friends, what do I call you?" He said "Boyfriend obviously"

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    He asked my to be his girlfriend and I said maybe . After a few days I said yes .

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