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    Cloud 9 Back together :0)

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    We broke up when he got his orders (multi-year stint) and we weren't ready to get married.

    His orders changed and we got back together a few weeks ago. So happy to have my babe back in my life
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    congrats

    when did you guys break up?
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    I'm glad you are happy but just be careful.
    There was a reason you guys decided to call off the relationship when he got his multi-year stint. That is something to look at. In the military there is going to be a lot of long term-long distance moments and it is important to know whether or not you guys can handle it and your relationship is worth that.
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    Quote Originally Posted by eelizah View Post
    I'm glad you are happy but just be careful.
    There was a reason you guys decided to call off the relationship when he got his multi-year stint. That is something to look at. In the military there is going to be a lot of long term-long distance moments and it is important to know whether or not you guys can handle it and your relationship is worth that.
    My thoughts exactly, but good luck!


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    I'm a big believer in the fact that once people have decided they can live without each other, everything anyone needs to know about the future of that relationship is clear. If you couldn't stay together when you were going to be apart, what happens if you have to be apart again? Because that is always a possibility with the military.

    I hope you guys were just impetuous and selfish when you broke up, and that now you've learned from that and it will work out for you.
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    Quote Originally Posted by villanelle View Post
    I'm a big believer in the fact that once people have decided they can live without each other, everything anyone needs to know about the future of that relationship is clear. If you couldn't stay together when you were going to be apart, what happens if you have to be apart again? Because that is always a possibility with the military.

    I hope you guys were just impetuous and selfish when you broke up, and that now you've learned from that and it will work out for you.
    That's how I feel as well. DH and I never took "a break" because we were either together or not.



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    Quote Originally Posted by villanelle View Post
    I'm a big believer in the fact that once people have decided they can live without each other, everything anyone needs to know about the future of that relationship is clear. If you couldn't stay together when you were going to be apart, what happens if you have to be apart again? Because that is always a possibility with the military.

    I hope you guys were just impetuous and selfish when you broke up, and that now you've learned from that and it will work out for you.
    Same.

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