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    I am so blessed

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    To have found someone who truly means the world to me. As some of you know, I am currently going through an ugly divorce. My XDH left for pretty much no reason, and turned into a person I'd prefer my son to never know (although, I won't withhold Matthew from his father.) Going through such obstacles; being a stay at home mom thrust into having to work FT, and have sole responsibility of my son was a huge challenge, that I quickly over came. I was stuck with the mentality that no one would want me, especially since my XDH didn't, and he wasn't a prize. Overcoming that mindset was my biggest challenge, honestly.

    I haven't posted much about it, but I have been dating a new man for 3 months. I am head over heels.. and have never, ever felt this way. He is by far, the sweetest man I know, and I count my blessings daily! He is also so great with Matty, and loves spending time with him.

    We have a ton in common! He is recently divorced (was finalized last week) and was married to an awful woman. She cheated on him while he was deployed, and days before he came home, she messaged him and said she emptied the house of all their belongings and left him for her boyfriend. Insane. My mom set us up just because we have a lot in common! My mom and his sister are co workers.

    He is in the AF and is currently stationed in NJ. I drive down often.. so I can always do NJ meet ups!!

    And now... pictures!

    At my best friends wedding in May.


    Downtown Boston on 4/21-- he took us to a Sox game!


    He's so awesome with Matty!




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    I absolutely adore the 3 of you... Not like I stalk your FB or anything.

    Miss you! So glad you're happy!

    "Thank you so much. No matter what, nothing is possible without you behind the scenes bustin heads and takin names. Thank you again. Everything you have done for me means a lot and nothing has gone unnoticed. I love you so much and thank you for saying 'I do.'"
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    It's great to see you so happy! And he is handsome! Way to go, chica!
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    You look so happy on Facebook and I seriously seeing the pictures of him and Matty! You deserve all of the happiness in the world and it looks like you found it
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    Wow so happy for you!
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    Thank you ladies!
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    Aww, you look so happy!
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    i'm glad you are happy!

    i also think we need a NJ meet up soon!
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    Yay! This is so good to hear! You deserve to be happy!
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    Quote Originally Posted by cassadilla View Post
    i'm glad you are happy!

    i also think we need a NJ meet up soon!
    Matty and I are driving down Friday night and leaving Sunday afternoon! We will be in Mount Holly.
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