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    I feel so shallow!

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    I mentioned in another thread that I had a date Saturday night with a guy I met on OKC. It also ended up being a friend's birthday dinner with about 16 attendees. I asked the guy (K) if he would want to go to that, and he said it sounded fun. Great, now it isn't weird if I bring DS since it's a group thing. So he gets there and he is awesome. Exactly what I expected and he was great with Caden. He played with him and seemed to genuinely enjoyed it. He also got along well with my friends. Awesome, right? After dinner I I invited him over to watch a movie, and we watched Life of Pi. We both found it kind of boring and talked the whole time... This sounds all too great, right? I met someone funny, cute, great with my son, has a job that's not at the same place as me (lol), has an adorable accent... pretty much everything I want.


    I feel soo shallow for this next part, and I'm trying to get over it because I REALLY like this guy; however, he kissed me after the movie and it was awkward. Like, pretty bad and uncomfortable kind of awkward. I don't know how to feel about it because that's not a big deal, but it is at the same time. I'm definitely going to see him again though, so maybe it will be okay.


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    You're not shallow at all. All my first kisses were awkward

    Maybe next time when you're "in the moment" it'll be better!


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    Next time will be better! And if not you can teach him.
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    I don't think that is shallow, I think it is pretty natural. The fact that you are planning to see him again and not just toss it in because of that one first awkward kiss, IMO is a big part if why it is big shallow at all. First kisses can be awkward, it will get better, or as PP said, you can teach too.
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    Not shallow at all I think it's normal to be kinda like "wtf?" When the first kiss is awkward. You're not throwing it the towel though, and push come to shove you can teach him! You'll have to teach him about other things to make you happy in certain areas anyways. So you can just incorporate the kissing in the "lessons."
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    It would be shallow if you didn't see him again. You can always teach, it's fun
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    Was it just awkward or was it baaad?

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    Quote Originally Posted by lavender_jane View Post
    Was it just awkward or was it baaad?

    Like the second picture, but on my mouth!


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    Quote Originally Posted by KaityBug View Post
    Like the second picture, but on my mouth!
    Oh dear Probably going to take a little direction then.
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    Db kissed me awwwwfully the first time.
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