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    Need to spice things up!

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    I feel like things with DB and I have been so serious lately. I can kinda see that its been wearing on him a little on top of his new position. (He's stepping in as senior medic for a while so he's been stressed out.) So I want to do something fun to lighten things up for him.

    But since we're LD, its a little limited.

    Any ideas?
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    Whenever DB and I got too bogged down with serious conversation or serious stuff in our lives we would watch a movie together on Skype. Sounds lame, but we did the whole "date night" thing. I figure that you guys skype a ton anyway, maybe just pick a night/hour out of the week to spend together watching something funny or something that you've both been meaning to see (IF he's in the situation that he can do that). Mute each other and type back and forth as you watch. it worked for us.
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    Ask him to pull your brains out through your nose.
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    Send him as many of these as you can manage:

    https://www.google.com/search?hl=en&...KIj0qQHs9YCoCw
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    Quote Originally Posted by photographerkate View Post
    Send him as many of these as you can manage:

    https://www.google.com/search?hl=en&...KIj0qQHs9YCoCw
    Gah! Yes!
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    Quote Originally Posted by photographerkate View Post
    Send him as many of these as you can manage:

    https://www.google.com/search?hl=en&...KIj0qQHs9YCoCw
    This made my day
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    when y'all skype is it somewhere private? Maybe dress up in a sexy outfit and strip for him.

    "We are all a little weird and life's a little weird, and when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall in mutual weirdness and call it love."
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    Quote Originally Posted by Er-my-knee View Post
    Whenever DB and I got too bogged down with serious conversation or serious stuff in our lives we would watch a movie together on Skype. Sounds lame, but we did the whole "date night" thing. I figure that you guys skype a ton anyway, maybe just pick a night/hour out of the week to spend together watching something funny or something that you've both been meaning to see (IF he's in the situation that he can do that). Mute each other and type back and forth as you watch. it worked for us.
    We have issues with Netflix whenever we try to watch a movie at the same time. Its a PITA. But I was able to make a little word search and send it to him. (He loved it because one of the things to find was "pooped my pants" which happened on our first date because I was sick. ) And we also did a virtual haunted house together. Which was ohkay. It wasn't the greatest thing but it was something to do.

    Quote Originally Posted by DrHarley View Post
    Ask him to pull your brains out through your nose.
    That'll really get him going.. i mean, he IS a walking dead fan...

    Quote Originally Posted by photographerkate View Post
    Send him as many of these as you can manage:

    https://www.google.com/search?hl=en&...KIj0qQHs9YCoCw
    Oh my god.. this is perfect!! And he's a dog lover so even better!!

    Quote Originally Posted by katebugg07 View Post
    when y'all skype is it somewhere private? Maybe dress up in a sexy outfit and strip for him.
    We've done that many times before so I felt like it was getting to predictable, ya know? I mean its been a while since we've skype sexed because we've been busy... but I felt like I needed more things in my toolbox than just sex, kwim?
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    DF and I do a "daily undie update" where we send each other pics of the underwear we're wearing that day. It sounds really weird but it's become our way of saying 'good morning' which is also funny since we have a 15 hour time difference.

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    DH had this habit of playing the same video over and over again on youtube. There have been A LOT of videos of the years that started off as hilarious and because he over played them, I got annoyed. So when it seems to be getting stale or I can tell he needs to be cheered up, I find one of them and send it to him. Sounds corny but oh well, it works most of the time. Still gonna for more suggestions, which can't hurt.


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