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    I'm not sure if I should be mad or not.

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    Dh left for his TDY 36 hours ago. The only contact I have had from him is a facebook status saying he was at hooters.

    I'm kind of ticked because I don't even know if he made it to his hotel last night or not. The base he was going to was 2 hours from the airport and the status about hooters said they were still in the airport area.

    Would you be mad? (clarifying I'm not mad he was at hooters , just the lack of communication)

    I don't want to be the crazy wife who wants her DH to "check in" all the time
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    I would probably be irked at the lack of communication. Not spitting mad, but seriously irked. wifey

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    I wouldn't be mad, but I am not someone that needs a ton of communication when we are apart. Some people need that, and would be upset.

    If you are upset, let him know that you feel disappointed that he didn't at least let you know that he had made it there safe.
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    I wouldn't be "mad" but I would wonder where his head was and why he didn't want to contact me and at least say hi.




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    Quote Originally Posted by honeybun View Post
    I would probably be irked at the lack of communication. Not spitting mad, but seriously irked. wifey
    Quote Originally Posted by Anchored2aSailor View Post
    I wouldn't be mad, but I am not someone that needs a ton of communication when we are apart. Some people need that, and would be upset.

    If you are upset, let him know that you feel disappointed that he didn't at least let you know that he had made it there safe.
    Thanks, yeah I am not like crazy fuming mad, but it's not like he's going to the desert where there's little communication, he's in GA of all places where technology is abundant!
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    Quote Originally Posted by BiggyBiggs View Post
    Thanks, yeah I am not like crazy fuming mad, but it's not like he's going to the desert where there's little communication, he's in GA of all places where technology is abundant!
    That's understandable that you would feel a little disappointed that he didn't call. Just put it all out there when you talk to him next. He might be so caught up with what is going on there, that it slipped his mind. <-This is not to say that you aren't important.
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    I would be irked if he didn't communicate with me that he got there safely but had the time to update FB. On the other hand, FB is such an issue because of things like this, so I wouldn't let it get to me or get too upset about it. Let him know when you talk to him next that even just a text letting you know he made it would be fine, that it would put your mind at ease.
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    I'd be annoyed with my dh! We are definitely ones to check in with each other when travel is involved.
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    I'd be a little annoyed. I like to know people made it to their destinations safely.
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    Yeah if he is in GA and he can update his FB to being at hooters then id be alittle dissapointed that he cant text you at least.


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