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    When did you say it?

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    How long where you dating when you finally told each other that you loved them?

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    we'd been f-buddies, then "seeing" each other, then kind of dating, then really dating for almost three years before he spit it out
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    We were dating via internet (LDR) for about 2-3 months. I called him and said "I love you. Going to sleep now, goodnight." and hung up. LOL

    He'd slipped on Valentine's Day after a night out drinking with his buddies. We were on MSN video chat and I SWORE that I heard him say "I love you", but asked "what?" - "nothin'". He owned up to it later on after I told him "I love you."
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    After about 3 weeks, maybe 2.


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    Quote Originally Posted by dolphindm04 View Post
    We were dating via internet (LDR) for about 2-3 months. I called him and said "I love you. Going to sleep now, goodnight." and hung up. LOL

    He'd slipped on Valentine's Day after a night out drinking with his buddies. We were on MSN video chat and I SWORE that I heard him say "I love you", but asked "what?" - "nothin'". He owned up to it later on after I told him "I love you."
    that made me remember.... i think he may have said it to me far before "really" saying it. we were super drunk after a party one night years ago and i swear it slipped out. to this day he doesn't remember and i'm not sure if it really happened
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    i'm never the first to say it. i always wait untill my SO says it first. and i stick to that rule for 2 reasons.

    1. i dont want to rush my SO into something he's not ready for
    2. i'm not a very emotionally expressive person to begin with.

    as far as actually timing goes, it all depended on the guy i was with. i had one boyfriend who told me he loved me after only a couple weeks :yikes!! and another boyfriend who i dated exclusively for a year and we never once said it to each other.
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    about 2 months after we started dating. I told him I loved him and he said "Aw, babe, you fu*kin suck".

    I caught him off guard, obviously. He said he loved me too, later that night.

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    We had been together for 3 weeks he had said it before I went to work and he didn't realize he said it lol. It was super cute though


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    We had been dating for about 2-3 months. I knew he had wanted to say it for awhile by the way he kept looking at me (he is way too easy to read sometimes )
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    We had been together almost 4 months before he said it, it was also the day before he left for pre-deployment training. Though he told me he knew after we had been together for a few weeks
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