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    Long Heart to Heart

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    [So, after getting the bear from ex-DF and having a loong heart to heart with my grandma (she knows me better than anyone), and having her tell me how unhappy and lost i have seemed lately. I broke down and admitted how much i really miss him and how much i love him. That not having him in my life hasn't felt "right" (dont know how to explain it). ]

    I have tried to ignore it all, my feelings etc. and forget about him and everything...but I haven't been able to. I have tried to move on, but I don't want to be with anyone else. I've tried, it all feels off, like somethings not quite right. Where with ex-DF everything just fit together.

    [So, ex-DF and I have been talking about everything, I admitted to him how I felt but that I was scared of getting hurt again. We had a very long talk about everything and I feel really good about the decision we came to.....

    We are back together. I truely believe he is sorry for what happened, and he deeply regrets it. I believe him when he tells me he will do whatever he has to, to show me it will never happen again.

    The funny thing is....I trust him more now than I did before... I trust him whole heartedly. My aunt told me "sometimes it takes losing someone to truely love them" and I believe that.

    I am truely happy right now. And I just wanted to share with you all what is new in my life. And to let you all know that ex-DF is back to DF. ]
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    Congrats! Im glad you are happy! Thats great! I missed the original story... but if it feels right for you then it probably IS right Yay
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    Thank you Im sure people that know the backstory arent going to be thrilled with my decision but Im happy with it and thats all that matters. But I will prob. be mentioning him in posts in the future and thought i should update everyone.
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    Congrats! I think it's wonderful that everything worked out and that you're back together
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    Well, congratulations on working things out! If you're happy, screw what everyone else thinks.
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    Congrats! I am happy for you

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    I don't know your backstory, but congratulations.
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    I forget the reason why yall broke up, but if you both are happy and comfortable then I am happy for you! Congrats
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    My husband and I split up for a month back in April, and the fact that he came clean and seemed truely sorry made me trust him more. I'm not saying there aren't still issues being resolved, but I think it made us stronger.

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    As long as you both are happy that's all that should matter Congrats!!!
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