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    i just talked to him. please dont judge my decision. i dont wanna get knocked down for it.

    he told me he wanted to talk after work so we went to my car and first thing i saw was he put a rose on my windshield. then he started explaining to me that he really f-ed up and he regrets everything and how he has treated me lately. he said that he if we got back together he would give up drinking, and he would spend time with me any chance he could and he would start being the person i fell in love with. he told me exactly why he had been different lately. he said he regrets joining the national guard and he hates himself for it. he doesnt wanna deploy. he wishes he went to college like everyone else did. so because of that he was really down on himself and he didnt tell me any of it cause he has a hard time letting his guard down because he doesnt want to seem weak.

    we've been together for so long that i cant just throw it away. i know that he can be an amazing boyfriend, because he used to be that way. so as much as a lot of you probably wont like this, im giving him another chance. im not ready to throw it away. i just wanted to let you all know. please dont put me down for my decision
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    I hope he sticks to his word and that you guys are able to work it out!
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    it's always going to be your choice. Anyone who judges you for this should sit on a pine cone and spin. I hope it works out, don't stand for being treated like crap and bounce hard IF it happens again.
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    People can really Change. I wish you best the luck! and keep us posted!

    Im happy for you and support you if that is what you want!!
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    I am not going to judge you and im going to keep my opinion to my self.

    You have made your decision and you are old enough to know what is good for you and what you are willing to go through.

    Either way we are here for you no matter how this turn out

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    Quote Originally Posted by MamaStrong View Post
    it's always going to be your choice. Anyone who judges you for this should sit on a pine cone and spin. I hope it works out, don't stand for being treated like crap and bounce hard IF it happens again.
    i plan on it, and he knows that as well
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    Hey, you know him better than we do. I hope everything works out


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    I'm glad he stepped up and was honest with you. I hope things will work their way out for you two.
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    I'm glad you got to talk to him OP and that he came to you wanting to explain. It can be really hard for men to admit they've made a mistake, etc. I'm glad he was able to open up to you and tell you what's been going on, and I'm really glad he realises how he was treating you wasn't right

    Sometimes it takes a person losing someone to realise what they had and what is important, and it sounds like this may be what happened with him.

    Good luck! If you're happy, that is all that matters! I really hope he is able to return to being the man you fell in love with!
    I believe that everything happens for a reason. People change so you can learn to let go.
    Things go wrong so you can appreciate them when they're right.
    You believe lies so you eventually learn to trust no one but yourself.
    And sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together.

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