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    Can someone please explain to me?

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    Why SO MANY girls/guys talk to their exes?

    I am honestly curious. I don't really understand the concept. Isn't an ex an ex for a reason? How can you break up one day, but then the next day continue to talk on the phone just as much?

    This is something I've observed on here and IRL a lot, and I just don't get it!
    Someone give me an explanation, or your experience?
    R.I.P. My Love, Everyone was supposed to come home together, I'm sorry you had to come home early
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    I'm friend with some exes because I was friends with them beforehand or was friends with them in the relationship. Just because you aren't romantically compatible doesn't mean you can't be friends. Not all exes of course. Some exes are assholes and i never wanna see their ugly mugs again
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    s werent you friends with your ex?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jessym View Post
    I'm friend with some exes because I was friends with them beforehand or was friends with them in the relationship. Just because you aren't romantically compatible doesn't mean you can't be friends. Not all exes of course. Some exes are assholes and i never wanna see their ugly mugs again


    I think it's perfectly fine (in SOME situations) to talk to an ex. Of course, an ex boyfriend/girlfriend is different than an ex fiance in my opinion. I also think, to each their own...
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    I've been friends with ex's before. DH has as well , sometimes you realize you are better off as friends than in a relationship.
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    I am not friends with any of my ex's. . .
    It creates drama i really could careless for. .
    I made it very clear that my DB will also not talk to any of his ex's either. .
    There isnt a reason to. .
    EX FOR A REASON <---- believe that 100%
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    I got back with my ex after 6 years.....
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    Quote Originally Posted by jellybeanerr View Post
    s werent you friends with your ex?
    There was no communication unless necessary.
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    Not all breakups have to be this big drama scene either. I've been able to part ways with bf's and not make it some big "I HATE YOU, GO TO HELL" type thing. It's possible to have a mutual understanding that you're just better off as friends.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jessym View Post
    Not all breakups have to be this big drama scene either. I've been able to part ways with bf's and not make it some big "I HATE YOU, GO TO HELL" type thing. It's possible to have a mutual understanding that you're just better off as friends.
    Ok, I understand that. But why complain about how much of an a-hole they are, not treating you right, etc. then break up, and not even change a thing in terms of communication/hanging out? Maybe its different on the inside than to an outside observer, but I just don't get it. Maybe I'm too hung up on one situation.
    R.I.P. My Love, Everyone was supposed to come home together, I'm sorry you had to come home early
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