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    Your love language.

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    I have owned the Five Love Languages book for about five years now. I received it as a high school graduation gift.

    My love language has always been quality time, but I thought today I would take both assessments - the one for singles and one for wives, and compare the results. I was really surprised by what I saw. My primary love language is still quality time, but the rest of the numbers varied quite a bit.

    Singles assessment:

    8 Words of Affirmation
    11 Quality Time
    2 Receiving Gifts
    7 Acts of Service
    2 Physical Touch


    Wives assessment:

    6 Words of Affirmation
    8 Quality Time
    4 Receiving Gifts
    6 Acts of Service
    6 Physical Touch


    Let's see your results! Do you agree with your love language? Have you taken both assessments and gotten different results?
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    OFF TO DO THE ASSESSMENT!
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    Wife:
    7 Words of Affirmation
    6 Quality Time
    4 Receiving Gifts
    5 Acts of Service
    8 Physical Touch

    I'm a very huggy lovey person c: So this works <3
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    I don't remember my numbers since I did this over a year ago but on both my top two were physical touch & acts of service. I am making DH read it right now.
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    Your Scores
    9 Words of Affirmation
    8 Quality Time
    3 Receiving Gifts
    5 Acts of Service
    5 Physical Touch

    Eh. I don't know! I'd agree with all of it, accept the "gifts" part I don't really get gifts very often, and I'd say that that belongs at the bottom of the list, since to me, getting gifts is really not very important to me. But I'm maybe interpreting this wrong!
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    Wives:
    Your Scores
    6 Words of Affirmation
    4 Quality Time
    3 Receiving Gifts
    5 Acts of Service
    12 Physical Touch

    Singles:
    Your Scores
    8 Words of Affirmation
    10 Quality Time
    3 Receiving Gifts
    7 Acts of Service
    2 Physical Touch
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    Wives assessment:

    7 Words of Affirmation
    7 Quality Time
    4 Receiving Gifts
    4 Acts of Service
    8 Physical Touch
    Pax, Aeon
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    Quote Originally Posted by MissOptimistic View Post
    Your Scores
    9 Words of Affirmation
    8 Quality Time
    3 Receiving Gifts
    5 Acts of Service
    5 Physical Touch

    Eh. I don't know! I'd agree with all of it, accept the "gifts" part I don't really get gifts very often, and I'd say that that belongs at the bottom of the list, since to me, getting gifts is really not very important to me. But I'm maybe interpreting this wrong!
    It's any gifts - even something little that your DH picked up at the store because he was thinking of you, or if you really value that he puts thought into his gifts, etc. It's already at the bottom of your list, so I think that's probably a pretty fair assessment.

    Quote Originally Posted by Franklinn. View Post
    Wives:
    Your Scores
    6 Words of Affirmation
    4 Quality Time
    3 Receiving Gifts
    5 Acts of Service
    12 Physical Touch

    Singles:
    Your Scores
    8 Words of Affirmation
    10 Quality Time
    3 Receiving Gifts
    7 Acts of Service
    2 Physical Touch
    That's really interesting! What do you think about those results? Do you identify more with the wives assessment?
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    Wives Assessment:
    9 Words of Affirmation
    5 Quality Time
    1 Receiving Gifts
    4 Acts of Service
    11 Physical Touch
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    9 Acts of Service
    7 Physical Touch
    7 Quality Time
    7 Words of Affirmation
    0 Receiving Gifts



    I loooove it when DH helps with the chores
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