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    So here is my situation......... Met a guy online. We talked online and he invited me for coffee. I drove to his city (about 45 min). We talked until the coffee shop was closing, he invited me to go do something else. Not knowing his city very well I let him throw out suggestions. He works long hours so one of his suggestions was to go back to his house show me the "79" camaro he is restoring, and watch a movie. I agreed I figured that he seemed like a good guy. So he had me get in his truck and go to his house, we looked at said camaro, and then watched Ghostbusters. We got cold while watching the movie so he grabbed a banket, after he spread the blanket over us he asked if I would cuddle up to him. At that point I was pretty attracted to him so I did. We finished the movie and he figured out I was ticklish. So we played that game for a bit. He started to kinda fall asleep, so he felt bad but asked if it was ok to take me back to my car. We drove back to my car and he said that he wanted to see me again. At that point I was pretty estatic. I said yeah sure that would be fun.

    Now here is the kicker.... that was a week and half ago. I mentioned 3 days after that date that I was trying to plan my week and wondered if he had any idea when he wanted to see me again (I was on staycation). He said he was busy the next 2 weeks. We've sent a couple of texts back and forth but I didn't want to bomb his phone with texts. He has yet to call. I was going to his city over the weekend so I sent him a text to see if he was busy. He said "sadly yes. maybe next weekend." So I guess my question is do I wait and see or just move on? Suggestions? Tips?

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    He seems like nice guy, so i would say yes and no.
    You two are not exclusive, he is not your boyfriend, so if you meet somebody else its not like you're cheating or anything.

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    Yeah I agree. If he calls or texts then cool but if not, then it's not like you had a kid with him or anything
    Move on the next and play tickle-wars with another hot attractive guy
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    true... I just don't know what to think. Usually, the guys I've gone on dates with from online are just not worth my time. This guy is the total package. Good looking, stable, funny, sweet. I'd totally go on a date with some other guy but I'm afraid some how I'm jacking up this opportunity. My roommate (who is male) thinks I should wait and see if he calls then tell him I made plans and see how he reacts.
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    He probably is busy and you've only been one date. So don't plan around him. Go out do your own thing.
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    Quote Originally Posted by DCWife09 View Post
    Yeah I agree. If he calls or texts then cool but if not, then it's not like you had a kid with him or anything
    Move on the next and play tickle-wars with another hot attractive guy
    yeah no kids here....... unless somehow he got me preggers thru osmosis.. J/K
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    I wouldn't start out playing games with him, he did tell you within the next two weeks... So till then go on with your life, if he calls and your available then great, go see him... If your not set up another time... If he doesn't call then you have your answer... I wouldn't chase him per say... Good luck doll!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Mistress Pandora View Post
    He probably is busy and you've only been one date. So don't plan around him. Go out do your own thing.
    I agree........ I'm probably just caught up in his hotness......
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    Teri!!!!!!!!

    He sounds like a great guy. But, since it was just a date, do your own thang. If he calls, sweet. If not, bummer.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sunny_Love View Post
    I wouldn't start out playing games with him, he did tell you within the next two weeks... So till then go on with your life, if he calls and your available then great, go see him... If your not set up another time... If he doesn't call then you have your answer... I wouldn't chase him per say... Good luck doll!

    I'm glad you pointed out the game thing...thanks...... I didn't even think about that being a game. That would be so unhealthy for me to do.
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