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    This is kindof a vent. Kindof a search for any random advice you've got to give. I'm just throwing it out there so I can get it outta me and I can stop being mopey.

    I've posted that I was hanging out with a guy before he deployed a couple days after Christmas. We talk on instant messenger once or twice a week usually. I send him care packages (But he hasn't gotten any of his mail, and it's making him miserable which stinks). I've told him that I have a crush on him, and I don't really know how he feels about that. He kindof brought up the subject of what we were once before he left... and I told him that because of the bad timing, I'm not expecting anything from it. He said "You never know, something could come of this". To which I told him "I know, which is why I still put some hope in you" (to which he responded "that's one of the things I like about you... you've got a good head on ya" ). He wants to see me on his R&R. But I don't know if that's just for or if he feels more too. I kindof feel like if he was willing to come to Kentucky from Texas and give up time with his friends, family, and kids to see me, it may be more than sex for him too, but I may just be that damn good (). I told him I'd come to Texas, but still, he was willing.


    Anyways I MISS HIM!!!
    I'm not crying over missing him. I just get kind of sad and sit here and sigh. I messaged him on the dating site we met on today and told him I figured I'd say hey since we haven't talked all week. But I don't even know if it's appropriate to tell him I miss him, so I don't.
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    He got online shortly after I wrote this! He got my package finally! Even though I can't hear his voice, he seemed so much happier than the last time we talked. Every thing he said last time seemed really mopey and depressed. And he admitted he was having a shitty time, and that he was really bummed about not getting mail. Today he seemed totally different. We only got to talk for a few minutes, but when I said I was glad he finally got my package, he said "so am i" and it seemed so relieved. He also got his laptop he ordered a couple days ago. It doesn't have a webcam though, so I'm planning on sending him one

    And when he was getting off I said "I miss ya, [my nickname for him]"... which was my casual way of saying I miss you and made ME feel better.



    And then as soon as I closed his IM, my bestie called me, back from her vacation
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    I think if he wanted sex he could make a phone call and get it ..not go all the way to kentucky. That jmo though..

    I'm happy for you
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    Quote Originally Posted by jellybeanerr View Post
    I think if he wanted sex he could make a phone call and get it ..not go all the way to kentucky. That jmo though..

    I'm happy for you
    I agree! for you!!
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    guard your heart, but take a chance on love. you




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  7. Preaching from the book of Johnny Cash...
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    Quote Originally Posted by Whitla View Post
    guard your heart, but take a chance on love. you
    i agree. remember whitla's advice TRUST YOUR INTUITION! if you feel at all like he might be pushing you, DO NOT FEEL GUILTY, just dont . good luck though! we are pulling for ya!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Whitla View Post
    guard your heart, but take a chance on love. you



    Love is about taking the chance to fall and praying he'll catch you.....

    You never know until you try, I'm at the same point. Go in guarded but open to the possibilities of something greater....
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    Quote Originally Posted by Whitla View Post
    guard your heart, but take a chance on love. you
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    No more ticker!!! Deployment #2 is over
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    Quote Originally Posted by Whitla View Post
    guard your heart, but take a chance on love. you


    Quote Originally Posted by lilinkgirl View Post
    i agree. remember whitla's advice TRUST YOUR INTUITION! if you feel at all like he might be pushing you, DO NOT FEEL GUILTY, just dont . good luck though! we are pulling for ya!

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    Love is about taking the chance to fall and praying he'll catch you.....

    You never know until you try, I'm at the same point. Go in guarded but open to the possibilities of something greater....



    OP - Happy for you!






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