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Thread: moving in together before marrage

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    Me and DB have talked about moving in together before getting married it mainly depends on what is going on with both of our careers.

    Well I was just wonder on how everyone else felt on the issue?
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    We lived together for 3 years before we got married...N moved in with me after about the first month...we stuck to our religion and morals, but we lived together.
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    i personally wouldn't do it, but everyone had different opinions. It's all on you and how u feel about it! Nothing wrong with it though!
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    i just feel that there are more marriages that break up if the couple lives together first
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    I feel like if you live together first then getting married doesn't change anything. It's all a personal preference though.

    If you do decide to go through with it you should talk about how yall are going to handle money/bills BEFORE you move in.
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    Quote Originally Posted by dancerdixy View Post
    i just feel that there are more marriages that break up if the couple lives together first
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    DH lived with me for a year before we got married, of course it was in my parents house
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    Quote Originally Posted by dancerdixy View Post
    i just feel that there are more marriages that break up if the couple lives together first
    that seems backwards to me JMO

    We moved in together in September and we just got married. I think it is a good idea to move in together to test out how you do together when seeing each other all the time.

    I have the same rule for sex too. If you're gonna get married you might as well have sex and make sure it's good because you have to being doing that the rest of your life too
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    IMO living together is something that should be done AFTER entering joining your lives together as husband and wife.


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    I think moving in together before marriage is a must. I don't understand why people don't do it.

    Living together with somebody is totally different then dating.
    You get to know a person on a totally different level. You see how they keep their house, how they are when they wake up in the morning, how they behave when their sick and stressed.
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