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    Incompatibility

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    Does anybody know of any books or have any suggestions on overcoming incompatibility in relationships?
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    how so? I kinda thought if you were incompatible it just doesn't make a relationship workable?
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    Hmmm. I guess it depends on what the areas of incompatibility are. I think some can be overcome and some can't/shouldn't be.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Erinnicole401 View Post
    how so? I kinda thought if you were incompatible it just doesn't make a relationship workable?
    Honestly, I'd really rather not go into that. I don't want a barrage of "Dump him already!" I'm not the type of person to just give up without trying every available avenue.
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    hmm..I dont think ive ever heard of a book that is for an incompatable relationship? I mean there are some amazing books that help you work through a relationship or marriage but ive never seen one about this subject?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Erinnicole401 View Post
    how so? I kinda thought if you were incompatible it just doesn't make a relationship workable?
    Quote Originally Posted by misspurrmeow View Post
    Honestly, I'd really rather not go into that. I don't want a barrage of "Dump him already!" I'm not the type of person to just give up without trying every available avenue.
    i dont know of your situation, but honestly i thought the same thing when i read your post. i dont think she was being mean or trying to instigate anything.

    i hope you find what you need though.
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    I just Googled overcoming incompatible marriage and got a few results...

    This one looks pretty interesting:
    Amazon.com: I'd Trade My Husband for a Housekeeper: Loving Your Marriage after the Baby Carriage (9780811867351): Trisha Ashworth, Amy Nobile: Books
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    Quote Originally Posted by lilinkgirl View Post
    i dont know of your situation, but honestly i thought the same thing when i read your post. i dont think she was being mean or trying to instigate anything.

    i hope you find what you need though.
    definitely.

    Also, OP...I can relate on that. Sometimes it sucks hearing it like that. I'm like that too though...would rather work on something first.
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    Quote Originally Posted by lilinkgirl View Post
    i dont know of your situation, but honestly i thought the same thing when i read your post. i dont think she was being mean or trying to instigate anything.

    i hope you find what you need though.
    I didn't take it as her trying to instigate anything. But I've had issues in the past where whenever I asked for advice about my relationship issues, most of the time people just told me to dump him. So, I no longer talk about it.
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    Sweetie, I mean this not in a trying to start stuff way, but even this is sharing. Along with past posts....

    The best thing to do is just keep all aspects of your relationship with this guy off the board.
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