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  1. Preaching from the book of Johnny Cash...
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    Screwy ***warning** this might be obnoxious!

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    sooooo....

    db and i have been together for 1 1/2 years. during this time, we moved in together, moved from va to la, bought a home, adopted fur babies etc...

    anyways... scouts honor, we have never ever been in a fight, arguement, raised out voices, left the room....

    NOTHING

    we have a very passionate love life, we just pretty much know what we want/ need and it just happens to be the exact same thing most of the time.

    my ??????? is this....

    do you think its bad not to have arguements? do you think its bad to have arguements?
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    I think every relationship has it's own challenges and it varies with each one how you deal with those challenges.

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    I think as long as you aren't avoiding topics or issues then its okay to NOT fight. If the only reason you never fight is because someone (the same person) always gives in or because you are just avoiding topics of conversation then, yeah, that's bad. (NOT saying that's you - just saying in general.)

    I also don't think its bad to fight as long as its fair, productive and isn't constant.

    DF and I have gotten into a few disagreements/fights but its not very often. We haven't had a fight since probably last year (2009).

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    Quote Originally Posted by BrittanyLynn View Post
    I think as long as you aren't avoiding topics or issues then its okay to NOT fight. If the only reason you never fight is because someone (the same person) always gives in or because you are just avoiding topics of conversation then, yeah, that's bad. (NOT saying that's you - just saying in general.)

    I also don't think its bad to fight as long as its fair, productive and isn't constant.

    DF and I have gotten into a few disagreements/fights but its not very often. We haven't had a fight since probably last year (2009).
    yeah i think its a fine line...good point
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    I agree with the above. As long as you say everything you want to say, and you are not keeping things for each other, not arguing shouldn't be suspicious. Maybe you just a very good compromising formula between you!
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    That's too bad you guys have never had fight...

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    I dunno. I think fighting is definitely okay. When you fight... most of the time you get some form of an issue resolved. I don't think it's like.. detrimental that you DON'T fight.. but it's definitely okay too.
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    Quote Originally Posted by decks89 View Post
    That's too bad you guys have never had fight...

    Making up from one is the best!
    hahaha i have def. said that before!
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    Quote Originally Posted by decks89 View Post
    That's too bad you guys have never had fight...

    Making up from one is the best!
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    you've never had a playful "fight", any sort of disagreement? DF and I don't "fight" but we have harmless disagreements. And as much as what the others are saying makes sense I don't think it's healthy to never disagree on anything. I'd hate that in my relationship

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