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    Cloud 9 A little update on the life of me...

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    So last night I was able to talk to DB for 96 minutes.

    Annnnnnnnnnnnd...............[he said I may have to wait on the ring and the "official" proposal, but he asked me to marry him!!!!!!!!!!!

    I, of course, said yes. ]

    I've always known that he wanted to finish college before getting married. He's done 2 yrs of community college, so that'll put it 2 yrs out. He says he should be an officer by then too. He will go active and his pay would be enough to support a family (very important to him).

    Now, here's what I don't get.....he told me that he was going to go active, DEPLOY, and THEN marry me. I'm so confused as to why he wants to wait until after a deployment. He said I didn't need to know, and to trust him. Which I do...I just don't want to wait through a deployment to marry him. I told him this, and he said it may be sooner...so we'll see.



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    Maybe he wants to save up the money?

    But congrats!!!!!!!!!!!! That's so exciting!
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    that's so exciting!! maybe he'll explain his reason for waiting later
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    Congrats!!
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    Quote Originally Posted by HisGirl2010 View Post
    Maybe he wants to save up the money?

    But congrats!!!!!!!!!!!! That's so exciting!
    That could be...but I have a very VERY healthy savings account, that I'm saving specifically FOR our future. I can understand though if he doesn't want me supporting us at first, that's something he would feel isn't "right".

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    that's so exciting!! maybe he'll explain his reason for waiting later
    Yeah I hope so because I'm like



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    Quote Originally Posted by HisGirl2010 View Post
    Maybe he wants to save up the money?

    But congrats!!!!!!!!!!!! That's so exciting!
    ^^ completely reasonable!!
    but on the other hand CONGRATSSS!!!!!
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