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    I broke it off. He texed me complaining about more things and just was the last straw. I love him to death but he was dragging me fae first in the mud emotionally and I just couldn't take it anymore. He told me the reason he doesn't talk to me is because he doesn't want to see my emotions, he doesn't want them to get in the way of his reasoning. Basically he's hiding behind his cell phone and thats not fair to me. So I was the bigger person and I told him I'm done. After 2 great years, I give up because he won't grow up. I thought he might change his mind about things but I was wrong as usual.


    I hurt. Alot. I keep bawling my eyes out. I packed all my things and am now at my parents. I just want to talk to him but he won't talk to me. I just want to stop hurting.
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    I'm so sorry sweetie!

    It'll get better hon. You were right in letting him go since he obviously wasn't mature enough to deal with the fact that you're a person and have your own issues to deal with when it comes to this. Sounds to me like he was being extremely selfish.

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    I'm sorry that you are hurting. Sounds like you made the right decision however! Hang in there.





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    I'm so sorry hun!! and more

    I know it sucks and it feels like the hurting will never go away, but it will. It sounds like you made the right choice for you, and I know how hard that is, it was a really strong thing for you to do. Good for you. If you ever need to talk, feel free to PM or Skype me.




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    wow. I am so sorry thats horrible. I hope things turn around for you and you can move on or he pulls his head out of his
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    i'm so sorry
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    OP, I'm so sorry!
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    I know it doesn't feel like it, but it'll get easier.
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    I'm so sorry T
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    I'm so sorry, but you need to do what will make you happy... It is always hard at first but keep faith in your decision and remember why you made it... I hope things start to look up for you.
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