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    Confused So I'm totally in LIKE with a boy! **Pic in Post 19**

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    Ok so I told y'all I kicked J. to the curb because, well, he was pushy and he also turned out to be a liar (like told some other girl that he was dating that she was the only person he was seeing and lied about being in school )

    But I went out with A. last night (he just showed up at my door and suprised me since our date last weekend got cancelled!) and y'all I'm in LIKE with him! We have a date planned this weekend too!! He treats me like a princess, took me out to Cheesecake factory and opens doors for me and stuff!!! I should mention I've been talking to him for about 3 weeks now but we've just now officially taken it to the dating level...

    BUT, there's one problem, he has a 5 year old little girl (which is totally cool with me because I love kids) but he mentioned that he wants me to meet her when she comes down here for Christmas.... I don't know how to tell him that I feel like that's too soon for me to be meeting his little girl...what do I do??
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    Just take it one step at a time...you still have close to 90 days...

    People can get really close in that amount of time...

    Oh, and protect your carnal treasure...
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    By Christmas, it might not be too soon, though it probably will be. I say feel it out, but ask him not to mention the possibility to her until you both agree it's a good time. In other words, don't give him a definite no. You never know what could happen in the next three months. Most likely your current feeling will be right and it will still be too soon, but you have a while to make that call for sure. I don't think he'll be insulted by that- it's a very respectful thing to do to postpone a meeting like that until you're ALL sure it's the right time.
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    Totally take it slow, and see how you guys are doing at Christmas time.
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    Quote Originally Posted by decks89 View Post
    Just take it one step at a time...you still have close to 90 days...

    People can get really close in that amount of time...

    Oh, and protect your carnal treasure...
    Man I'm really trying!!! That's most of the reason why J. went bye-bye!!


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    Quote Originally Posted by decks89 View Post
    Just take it one step at a time...you still have close to 90 days...

    People can get really close in that amount of time...

    Oh, and protect your carnal treasure...
    Decks is right. Just take it a day at a time.

    The bolded made me but it is very true!! Protect it like a !
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    They've already said it all

    I'm so glad you're in like!!
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    I agree with the other ladies. Take it slow and just see what happens. Don't completing push the idea aside, because you never know where you'll be by then
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    i'm so excited you're in like!! but i agree don't give a definite no since who knows how things will be at christmas, but make sure he knows that right now it seems to soon and he shouldn't mention meeting you to his daughter yet since you don't want her to be disappointed if dec turns out to be too soon. but good luck! and
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    Quote Originally Posted by foreverandalways View Post
    They've already said it all

    I'm so glad you're in like!!
    Me too but I'm trying really hard not to get my hopes up too high...he just gives me those amazing butterflies!!


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