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    sounds to me like he's got patience. You guys worked through it. He could have said "i can't give anymore" and hung up. He didn't; he loves you. Stop over thinking it and love your man.

    lol, that was an attempt at a lecture...how did i do?

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    Quote Originally Posted by BILYs_special View Post
    sounds to me like he's got patience. You guys worked through it. He could have said "i can't give anymore" and hung up. He didn't; he loves you. Stop over thinking it and love your man.

    lol, that was an attempt at a lecture...how did i do?
    Very nice. Thank you =)
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    Girl you are !! Jk jk

    He loves you. He's making compromises and sacrifices for you. You just have to have faith in him.

    I know it's hard. I've been there! But you HAVE to let go and have faith. Deployments make us all over analyze and go crazy. Stay strong and have faith in him.
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    sounds like normal deployment stuff IMHO, keep working on it!! You guys will do ok as long as you both care about your relationship.

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    It sounds like you've got an amazingly understand DB that loves you and is willing to try to make things work, but I can PROMISE you that that patience will wear thin eventually. (I know this because I've been where you are) It's in no way easy to move past your insecurities and I understand that, but you may need to consider counseling to help with the process. I'm glad you two got this all worked out and talked through and the awkward-ness didn't last long.


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    Quote Originally Posted by April Lynne View Post
    It sounds like you've got an amazingly understand DB that loves you and is willing to try to make things work, but I can PROMISE you that that patience will wear thin eventually. (I know this because I've been where you are) It's in no way easy to move past your insecurities and I understand that, but you may need to consider counseling to help with the process. I'm glad you two got this all worked out and talked through and the awkward-ness didn't last long.
    i agree totally!! good post

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