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    Has anyone had people at work asked when they were dating their boyfriend " so when are you getting married" . I am getting really frustrated with people i work with. I have had 5 people already ask me and i have only been dating my boyfriend for 5 months. i feel like telling all of them to mind their own businesses.
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    Tell them its none of their business.......
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    I don't know what's making them keep asking, maybe they think you guys are perfect together or something... so take it as a compliment, instead of an annoyance maybe



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    They are probably asking because for most, it's the natural progression of things. You date and then you get married... I don't think they say it to annoy you.
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    People are just nosy and want something to gossip about.
    Dont let them get to you.
    Just be polite and say "not sure if we will get married, we just really like each others company and having fun, but we will see"

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    i think its bad when you have the boss of you store saying probably as a joke i want to be invited to the wedding. my work unfortunately is full of people who like to gossip. it just puts me and my boyfriend in an ackward position because we both know we are not ready to be married or even engaged.
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    yea my boyfriend told me to not let it get to me but its happened quite a bit recently.
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    When they ask just say when/if he asks I'll tell ya and change the subject.


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    okay thanks fot the advice. i told him i would like to be dating a year before we start talking about marriage.
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    Quote Originally Posted by kwinky83 View Post
    okay thanks fot the advice. i told him i would like to be dating a year before we start talking about marriage.
    Or you could very easily tell them that, that would both explain why you aren't all "I'm hoping he'll ask soon" and why you're not already engaged.


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