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    Mmmmk, so as we all know today is 3 weeks since I've had ANY contact what-so-ever with exDB and well I got asked out on a date. So I'm thinking that I kinda want to go, he's cute and really sweet and my thinking is a date can't hurt...BUT, I'm still hung up on exDB. I still think about him and miss him but I won't be getting back with him.

    So my question here is, do you think it's too soon to go out with someone new? Is it unfair to this guy if I go out on a date with him but I'm still thinking about exDB?


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    It's a date. You aren't agreeing to be in a relationship with him. Go tonight and see how it goes. If you want to push things further with him (or don't), then be honest with him later. Tonight, go out and enjoy yourself.

    P.S. It's NORMAL to think of exes and miss the good aspects of your relationship with them.
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    There is nothing wrong with getting to know someone better, which is what a date is all about. I think you should go. Then, if you feel you are being unfair to this guy, be honest with him and make sure he doesn't start expecting things that you aren't ready for, such as another relationship.
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    Go.
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    Go!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Am View Post
    It's a date. You aren't agreeing to be in a relationship with him. Go tonight and see how it goes. If you want to push things further with him (or don't), then be honest with him later. Tonight, go out and enjoy yourself.

    P.S. It's NORMAL to think of exes and miss the good aspects of your relationship with them.


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    Go for it! If you don't feel like you are on the same page at the end of the evening, or if he asks you on a second date, then be honest with him about your feelings.
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    Totally go on the date! I think it will be good for you to go out and get to know another guy. It's normal to still have feelings but you also need to put yourself out there a little bit. Plus, you aren't making a commitment to the guy.Just take it slow and have fun!


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    Ok so I'm thinking you girls are right...I'm thinking I'm gonna go.


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    I think a date is exactly what you need right now! Go for it!
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