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    Confused I... I can't even breathe right now :(

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    Do you guys remember the night a few weeks ago when DB went out with his exDF and got trashed with her and came home with her banging on our door? Well I was FINALLY over it... FINALLY done feeling like shit cause of that night FINALLY trusting him again when he said where he was and who he was with.... That's till I saw the pictures...

    Finally tagged up on FB there of him dancing with her... I mean like fucking on the dance floor... kissing, so many pictures of them kissing, I'm shaking, I can't breathe... he's gone right now so I can't even talk to him about it. I know he was drunk... but she's the one person in the world i'm jealous of... and apparently with good reason...

    I can't go home after work, even though he's gone the whole place is going to remind me of him and that night.... I can't do it. I'm gonna see if my friend can go out, he just got stationed here but we've been friends since high school... he'll know what to say.... I just feel like I'm dead inside
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    i know its scary right now. go out with your friend, thats a good idea. hopefully he can calm you down a bit.... i know theres no explanation for this...
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    I am sure he will see these pictures also and know that he is busted.

    Not to be mean...but I remember that post and really thought there was more
    going on there that he led on.

    I am sorry you are going through this but at least you know now and can move on.
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    i know its scary right now. go out with your friend, thats a good idea. hopefully he can calm you down a bit.... i know theres no explanation for this...
    R.I.P. My Love, Everyone was supposed to come home together, I'm sorry you had to come home early
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    I'm soo sorry, that is definitely not in any sense of the word okay for him to do that kind of sh!t to you. I don't know how you are going to choose to handle it, but if DH had ever done that to me- I would have kicked his ass to the curb. That's so disrespectful and wrong.



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    I would toss him to the curb. He has shown you that he is not able to uphold your trust, even with the recent pregnancy happenings. To be basically cheating with some other girl only a few months in would not fly with me.

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    Stand up for yourself and move on. I'm so sorry.
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    This guy is obviously not worth your time. He doesn't take being faithful seriously, and he has made it pretty clear that he still wants his ex. You should never have to be second best! Let your heart heal, and move on!
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    Quote Originally Posted by decks89 View Post
    I am sure he will see these pictures also and know that he is busted.

    Not to be mean...but I remember that post and really thought there was more
    going on there that he led on.

    I am sorry you are going through this but at least you know now and can move on.
    I remember reading that post and thinking there HAD to be more going on.

    I'm really sorry though. I can't imagine that feeling.




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    WOW. I'm guessing you know what to do. He treated you pretty bad. You have to decide if you are willing to forgive him.

    If you go out with your friend, no alcohol. It's just a depressant and will make things worse.

    Where is your db?
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