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    I got a few more answers....

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    my friends husband finally got to talk to DF. apparently it is my fault.... or at least i think so.

    he says that there is no communication, that all i say is "i don't know" and "i don't care" that its driving him insane, and he wants conversations. hes tired of not being able to have a relationship thru just IMs and emails....

    hes going to talk to me within the next few days.

    im so confused still. i know that i have trouble having conversations sometimes. its because i am just not a happy person most of the time. but im still not sure what is really going on. if the real reason for all of this is because of my conversation skills, or if he is really depressed, or a combo of both.

    but i still don't see why he couldn't just get mad at me, have a fight with me, tell me what i was doing wrong. and why he picked that day, after not even talking for a while, of all the times we have talked.

    oh and the kicker, which makes me really really sad. he says he'll decide in a month. that almost infuriates me. i love him so much, and to put a timeline on it is bs!

    i hope i get the answers i need soon.
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    I'm sorry chica

    Kinda ironic that the lack of communication has led to a total breakdown of communication, eh? I hope he starts talkin and start's realizing that he was acting rash and things work out between you
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    I'm sorry to hear you're going through this. It seems like he should have tried to talk to you about this instead of going about it the way he did. If you need to talk, feel free to PM.
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    This is gonna sound silly, but at least you know more. It may not be the best thing to hear, but they are answers. And they are fixable problems. Communication is something that can be worked on as a couple.



    I really hope it doesn't take him that long to decide and you guys can work something out! Good luck!!
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