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    K got a wedding invitation a while back from a USMC pal who got married last fall but is now having the big wedding to-do. Today he got a shower invitation in the mail. It was a two-in-one shower and rehearsal dinner invite. It was addressed to only him, not the two of us.

    Would you assume it is a bridal shower, or a couples' wedding shower? The invite came from another woman, not the bride.

    It gave a number at the bottom, but said "Call or text your REGRETS ONLY to XXX-XXX-XXXX."

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    Well... I would call to tell them I regret the fact that I didnt understand the invitation and need clarification!
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    Well... I would call to tell them I regret the fact that I didnt understand the invitation and need clarification!
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    Well... I would call to tell them I regret the fact that I didnt understand the invitation and need clarification!
    Love it! I don't think he'll call a stranger, though, and I don't plan on going so I don't really feel like calling.
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    were you invited to the wedding?

    this sounds kind of weird.... how can you have a shower and a rehearsal at the same time?? they don't seem related at all... and why would he be invited to the rehearsal if hes not in the wedding, or family?

    anyways, i would have him call and say yay or nay.... even if it is a stranger
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    Quote Originally Posted by azarmygf View Post
    were you invited to the wedding?

    this sounds kind of weird.... how can you have a shower and a rehearsal at the same time?? they don't seem related at all... and why would he be invited to the rehearsal if hes not in the wedding, or family?

    anyways, i would have him call and say yay or nay.... even if it is a stranger
    I was not invited. I don't plan on going anyway, though. It's in TX, and I have no desire to take off work for the wedding of a couple I've never met.

    The shower is earlier in the day, I believe. He's not in the wedding, or family. He's known the guy for less than a year, and didn't even know the guy was married until after the fact. They may have called each other two or three times since K got out of the military in April. But he would be making a two-day drive, so maybe that has something to do with it?

    I'm trying not to sound pouty, but I am really not a fan of the whole idea, which is the other reason why I would prefer not to call.
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    Quote Originally Posted by LittleRed View Post
    I was not invited. I don't plan on going anyway, though. It's in TX, and I have no desire to take off work for the wedding of a couple I've never met.

    The shower is earlier in the day, I believe. He's not in the wedding, or family. He's known the guy for less than a year, and didn't even know the guy was married until after the fact. They may have called each other two or three times since K got out of the military in April. But he would be making a two-day drive, so maybe that has something to do with it?

    I'm trying not to sound pouty, but I am really not a fan of the whole idea, which is the other reason why I would prefer not to call.
    wait... shouldn't you want to call? it says "regrets only"....
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