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    could you date after your SO?

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    Somebody asked me this today and I thought it was a really interesting question.

    If you split/divorced from your SO do you think you could date again?

    I know my answer but I wanted to see some other opinions.
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    I do. I believe that the heart can always mend. sometimes it takes weeks, sometimes months and sometimes years. I am madly in love with DB, I want to marry the man. I can't imagine a life without him but if he dumped me...my desire for a fulfilling relationship, marriage and children with a husband I trust will NOT go away. I think it would take YEARS to get over...but life goes on

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    im not married but.....i wouldnt be able to date for a while...i cant even imagen being withanyone else
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    Well, we can't split if we aren't together!

    But yes, I know I'd be able to date eventually. I was able to date after having a baby and a broken engagement 4 days later... then he married a stripper 2 months later. It took me years to be ready for a relationship after him, but I knew I'd be ready for it one day.
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    Hell yeah! Because I would only leave my husband if he cheated on me or beat me and if one of those two things happened I wouldn't give a rats ass about him! And if he left me well then yes still
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    Not right away, but with time, I would be up to date again.
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    In time, I would. It wouldn't be easy but I know I deserve love as much as the next person.
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    I have two children. I think I would be entirely too busy with their goings on to date. My children come first and it would take a very special person to be involved in our lives.
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    Quote Originally Posted by *MarineBug* View Post
    Hell yeah! Because I would only leave my husband if he cheated on me or beat me and if one of those two things happened I wouldn't give a rats ass about him! And if he left me well then yes still
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    of course. i don't understand people who cease to live after a divorce or breakup. find your self worth and go experience life. there is SO much more to this world than men and relationships. and when you start living for yourself and find happiness, why wouldn't you wanna celebrate that with someone who appreciates you?




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