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Bite_Me · 04-10-2009, 10:08 AM

Call me old fashion! Why is it so damn hard to pick up the phone and ask me out? I met this guy online and so this week all we've done is texted each other.
So last night he texted me asking if I wanted to go out with him!

WTF????
I'm sure it doesn't bother most people but for me it's a deal breaker. If you can't call me to say 'hi' or ask me out then I don't know if I want to waste my time with someone who only sends text messages!
I can understand if the guy is nervous but sometimes you just have to grow some balls and make that phone call!

Guess he's just not that into me!

Oh well, I won't be butt hurt over it!

xocassandralee · 04-10-2009, 10:08 AM

I would be feeling the same way

A phone call isnt much to ask for

SNK · 04-10-2009, 10:09 AM

I would insist that he calls you... It may be old fashion but it's also polite!

duckyprincess · 04-10-2009, 10:22 AM

maybe he is just "texting" type of people.. i really hate texting especially when it comes to something serious such as a date. Good luck!

jana · 04-10-2009, 10:24 AM

Mention to him you really would like to hear his voice.

I'm Boom · 04-10-2009, 10:27 AM

It'd be a deal breaker for me too.

Bite_Me · 04-10-2009, 10:33 AM

I'm so glad I read that book 'He's just not that into you' I have learned so much and have found that if a guy is interested in me, then nothing will get in his way.
I guess I've just become more of a ***** when it comes to guys. I figured that if he really wants to go out with me he'll take time out of his day and call me.
I'm not going to insist that he calls me. I didn't even reply to the text message. I'm just going to sit back and see what he does.
Maybe I need to lighten up. I just don't want another broken heart

Thanks ladies

momandwifey · 04-10-2009, 12:03 PM

yea def...that's just what society has come to..texting instead of calling...at least he's asking you on a date thats the most important part! lol

belladonna · 04-10-2009, 03:06 PM

i don't like text messaging, i prefer calls.

Staystrong130708 · 04-10-2009, 03:09 PM

see i dunno bought this db asked me well told me he didnt want to kiss anyone else which was his way of asking me out over text.

04-10-2009, 10:08 AM	#1 (permalink)
Bite_Me Formally known as Socalgirl93 Join Date: Sep 2008 Posts: 3,779 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 0% Longevity: 23%	Is it really too much? Call me old fashion! Why is it so damn hard to pick up the phone and ask me out? I met this guy online and so this week all we've done is texted each other. So last night he texted me asking if I wanted to go out with him! WTF???? I'm sure it doesn't bother most people but for me it's a deal breaker. If you can't call me to say 'hi' or ask me out then I don't know if I want to waste my time with someone who only sends text messages! I can understand if the guy is nervous but sometimes you just have to grow some balls and make that phone call! Guess he's just not that into me! Oh well, I won't be butt hurt over it!

04-10-2009, 10:22 AM	#4 (permalink)
duckyprincess Proud Navy Wife and Mommy Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: Cherrypoint, NC Posts: 1,747 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 6% Longevity: 68%	maybe he is just "texting" type of people.. i really hate texting especially when it comes to something serious such as a date. Good luck! __________________

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jana Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Wiesbaden, Germany Posts: 3,517 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 10% Longevity: 23%	Mention to him you really would like to hear his voice. __________________ ~JANA~

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Staystrong130708 cabbage and gravy Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Me-Scotland, Him- somewhere in the sea Posts: 1,695 Blog Entries: 1 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 0% Longevity: 21%	see i dunno bought this db asked me well told me he didnt want to kiss anyone else which was his way of asking me out over text. __________________

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04-10-2009, 10:08 AM	#2 (permalink)
xocassandralee Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: F.E. Warren AFB in Wyoming Posts: 10,446 Classifieds: (1) Activity: 1% Longevity: 20%	I would be feeling the same way A phone call isnt much to ask for

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SNK Account Closed Join Date: Oct 2008 Posts: 4,752 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 0% Longevity: 22%	I would insist that he calls you... It may be old fashion but it's also polite!

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I'm Boom Account Closed Join Date: Oct 2008 Posts: 3,298 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 0% Longevity: 22%	It'd be a deal breaker for me too.

04-10-2009, 10:33 AM	#7 (permalink)
Bite_Me Formally known as Socalgirl93 Join Date: Sep 2008 Posts: 3,779 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 0% Longevity: 23%	I'm so glad I read that book 'He's just not that into you' I have learned so much and have found that if a guy is interested in me, then nothing will get in his way. I guess I've just become more of a ***** when it comes to guys. I figured that if he really wants to go out with me he'll take time out of his day and call me. I'm not going to insist that he calls me. I didn't even reply to the text message. I'm just going to sit back and see what he does. Maybe I need to lighten up. I just don't want another broken heart Thanks ladies

04-10-2009, 12:03 PM	#8 (permalink)
momandwifey Junior Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 20 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 0% Longevity: 15%	yea def...that's just what society has come to..texting instead of calling...at least he's asking you on a date thats the most important part! lol

04-10-2009, 03:06 PM	#9 (permalink)
belladonna Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: NJ Posts: 106 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 0% Longevity: 15%	i don't like text messaging, i prefer calls.