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    Those 3 little words: I need some advice!!!

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    So db is set to deploy soon and I'll be flying out to spend a few days with him next month.

    I realized recently that I am completely head over heels in love with db. He means the world to me and I've never felt this way before and its is such an amazing feeling!!!

    I want to tell him that I love him when I see him next month before he deploys...I just feel this need to tell him!

    Do you think this would be a good idea? Or should I wait until he comes back from deployment? I just don't know if now is the best time to tell him how I feel. Do you think it would be too much pressure and everything with the deployment coming up?

    Any help would be greatly appreciated!!
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    I would tell him. you might regret not letting him know how much you care about him before he deploys.
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    You're the only one who knows if it's the right time to say it. If he feels the same, then I'm sure it would be great to hear it before he goes. He might feel more secure in your relationship while he's gone if he hears you voice that.
    Personally, I'd have to feel comfortable saying that to someone and have heard it back to wait a year for them!
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    If you feel the need to tell him, by all means let him know. To be honest, if you're flying out to see him, I'm sure he has a clue.
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    If you know you love him and if you feel the need to tell him, which you obviously do, I would go ahead and tell him.
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    Yes! Tell him
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    Quote Originally Posted by luvmysoldier2007 View Post
    I would tell him. you might regret not letting him know how much you care about him before he deploys.
    - tell him is in the air, time is of the essence....

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    Would you please not tempt the deployment gods?! They are vindictive and cruel.
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    If you're feeling it then I think you should tell him. Good luck!
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    If you feel it and it feels right I would tell him.
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