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    My DB is at training for another two weeks and we've been on the phone every evening since he's left. I love him and want to tell him so, but I don't know if I should wait until he gets back to tell him....or possibly tell him on the phone or e-mail.....the thing is, he's such a traditional guy and I don't know if telling him first would freak him out..I dunno. It seems like he wants to say it at the end of every convo we have....he gets quiet and thenjust says, I'll call you tomorrow. I think we're both nervous to say it...but it's seriously killing me to hold it in!!!! Help!!!!
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    I think you should do whatever feels right for you, my DB and I chose to wait to say I love you in person, just because we knew it would mean more to us that way. LOL I know what you mean though that it's killing you. good luck in whatever you do!
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    Say it blurt it out & let it go sweety
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    I'd personally wait until you're together in person so you can see their facial reaction
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    I wrote him a letter that I'll give him when he gets back...I'm gonna give it to him while we're sittign at our favorite spot by the water....it'll be great!!
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    Quote Originally Posted by soulfyre View Post
    I wrote him a letter that I'll give him when he gets back...I'm gonna give it to him while we're sittign at our favorite spot by the water....it'll be great!!
    sounds wonderful!
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    If you are ready to then i would say do it


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    Quote Originally Posted by soulfyre View Post
    I wrote him a letter that I'll give him when he gets back...I'm gonna give it to him while we're sittign at our favorite spot by the water....it'll be great!!
    That sounds like a good idea. That would be so sweet.
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    I'd probably wait as it's only another 2 weeks - and maybe he wants to say it first. How long have you been together?
    "For I know the plans I have for you says the Lord. They are plans for good and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope". Jeremiah 29:11

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    that sounds really sweet.
    my DB said it to me 1st
    laying in bed on the 1st night we met face to face.
    i didnt say it back cause i only knew him for three days. but i said it back like two or three days later through text.
    and i've been hooked ever cents.
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