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    Found emails from women to my DH. Investigated further and found he had posted a craigslist ad and found that he joined a singles web-site that he had to pay for to access. He admits to setting up the ad and the site thing but said he never met anyone from the sites. Is that still cheating? would you be hurt? would you stay with your SO if they did something like this?
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    If he was setting it up while we were married? It's not cheating but it shows an intent to cheat. I would be very upset and would either seek marriage counseling or if he refused I would end it. There is no excuse for that kind of stuff. Sorry to hear he did that.
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    I would consider it cheating. But that is just me. My question would be why did he do it? You said he actually got emails from women? No way, I would be beyond mad. I would never be able to trust my husband again.

    By the way, my Dh and I already had a long talk about what we consider cheating to be and that sex is no the only way to cheat.
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    Yes I'd be hurt. I would suggest marriage counseling.
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    i would consider that cheating yes


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    I'm sorry. It's all about intent and motive. It sounds like he intended to cheat. Whether he has or hasn't is something that needs to be seriously discussed. Yes, my trust for him would be weakened.
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    i actually do consider that cheating, because he tried to act on it.
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    He paid a website to meet up with single women. Yes that's cheating.
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    The intent is there to cheat and mentally cheating.. so yes. I would also be very hurt and angry about it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by AngelEyes13 View Post
    Found emails from women to my DH. Investigated further and found he had posted a craigslist ad and found that he joined a singles web-site that he had to pay for to access. He admits to setting up the ad and the site thing but said he never met anyone from the sites. Is that still cheating? would you be hurt? would you stay with your SO if they did something like this?

    It's not cheating, but it is pre-meditated! I would go to couple's counseling. He obviously isn't 100% happy with the current relationship between you two....

    That alone isn't enough for a divorce, in my eyes......
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