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    Confused I was reading....

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    ....some of the posts about getting engaged and it got me wondering???? Lots of our SOs "proposed" before proposing like in letters or over the phone or sometimes in person! Basically asking us if we would say yes and if we wanted to.
    My question is... Do you see that as just putting his "feelers" out there or as a real proposal!!!

    PS: Let me clarify... EX. I want to marry you one day, your the only one for me baby, do you feel the same way? Do you want my last name?
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    i would take that as just testing to see your response...not a real proposal..JMO

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    That's putting out feelers.. the proposal is when he gets down on one knee and asks...

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    Yeah, me too. Just feelers.


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    Yeah lol ha ha feelers just testing to see what you would say!!! Sorry bad word!

    Db and i have talked about it alot and he has even asked me but i dont see that as a proposal i was just wondering if there was many that did!!!
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    when he has a **ring**, I'll consider it a real proposal

    DB has said things like, "You are my one and only".... "I hope our kids look more like you than me"..."when we get married..." etc. but I think such conversations are just a mutual acknowledgment that we want to spend the rest of our lives together. yay
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    yeah he's trying to get comfortable with you and the fact that he wants to spend the rest of his life with you.. also he wants to feel a lil bit at ease when he really does propose to you.. because even though he has you he still has that hidden insecurity that when he drops down on one knee you'll run away you know what im saying? guys have lots of insecurites and proposin is scary!! so he's tryna be comfy and relaxed and basically PREPARE!! i think....
    well good luck!!
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    Feelers. They're just making sure that you would say yes, so that when they do really ask. They wont get let down if you say NO.
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