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    Is it ok for your S/O

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    to talk about other girls? to you? like as in getting pictures taken with them, that he's always hanging out with them every night, and that he cant wait to talk to the one chick, etc?

    why or why not?
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    Yes... b/c at the end of the day he's coming home to me.
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    Um, well my bf doesn't do that, but I'd be a real suspicious is he was into a girl like that.
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    Yes and no...it's fine if he has female friends but if all he talks about is these girls or one in particular then that's cause for some suspicion about whether it's more than just friendship.

    Friendship is cool...cant wait to see/talk to another girl? Not cool.
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    and that he cant wait to talk to the one chick, etc?
    ... if he can't wait to talk to a girl, who isn't me.... then I say there is a problem. I wouldn't be ok with that at all.
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    umm...no. not ok. like OneRed said, friendship is fine...but almost obsessing about hanging out, talking to, taking pics with some other girl...i dont think so.
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    Quote Originally Posted by carmel11725 View Post
    umm...no. not ok. like OneRed said, friendship is fine...but almost obsessing about hanging out, talking to, taking pics with some other girl...i dont think so.
    I have to agree..There's a fine line & to cross that is a big
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    NO, because I think it is incredibly disrespectful.

    I wouldnt mind if he was talking about other girls once in a while if it has to do with things that happened at work or something, but if he was telling me how much he couldnt wait to talk to some girl....yesh I would consider that very disrespectful to me.
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    No, definitely not.

    I don't care if he's friends with a couple girls, but it is NOT okay for him to be really excited to talk to them or to hang out with them on a regular basis.
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    DH has a good friend that he works with and is female, but still, he probably brings her up in conversation like once every few weeks, and it is always in a work context. Any other time he mentions girls it's usually about how he can't stand them/how they act!! But I would not be happy if he wasn't really really too excited about any other girl besides me.
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