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    What should I do?

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    Hi,

    I met my SO on New Years Eve! We talk everyday by phone, text, or email. Out of the blue yesterday he said he wants to to go visit him for his R&R in June. I don't know what to do? I would have to fly to meet him and figure out where to stay etc. I just don't know what to do! I don't know if I am scared, worried that it might not work out, etc.

    I need some words of wisdom!

    This is what I know: I get butterflies when we talk, I feel complete with him, and my friends and family have said I have changed for the better since we have been together. I just don't know about visiting him by my self for a week?
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    Go!!!!!!!!!!!! Jump for it...if it doesnt work out between the 2 of you then you know that you did every thing you knew to do! You will have an amazing time!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I PROMISE!!! Me and my DB have been dating for 7 months and I didnt know if it would work! BUt we are still goin strong! And we live 4 hours away from each other!
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    I say go for it!! If you don't, you may regret it later!
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    Quote Originally Posted by kal916 View Post
    Hi,

    I met my SO on New Years Eve! We talk everyday by phone, text, or email. Out of the blue yesterday he said he wants to to go visit him for his R&R in June. I don't know what to do? I would have to fly to meet him and figure out where to stay etc. I just don't know what to do! I don't know if I am scared, worried that it might not work out, etc.

    I need some words of wisdom!

    This is what I know: I get butterflies when we talk, I feel complete with him, and my friends and family have said I have changed for the better since we have been together. I just don't know about visiting him by my self for a week?
    Are you scared of him or what????
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    oops!
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    Have you met in person yet?

    If so..I say GO FOR IT!!!
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    I agree, if you've met in person.....then go for it.....if you didn't you'd always wonder "what if"
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    Gooooooooooo!
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    Hi,

    I am worried that I go and visit him and he isnt't intrested in me and then I am stuck in a werid situation. He called today and told me i could stay with him? I was always was taught never to chase a guy! Plus he says we're tight, but can't make a commitment. I am just scared that I may be rushing it.
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    I'd go for it.


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