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    does it bother you

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    when your s/o talks about his past sexual experiences? such as who his first was, and how many times he's done it in his life, and just stuff like that about past partners and such. and do/have you also talked about your past sexual experiences, etc with him?

    I kinda dont like it, but i dont say anything. i had an experience with someone where i once told them i didnt like hearing about it that it became a huge fight. and i dont want that to happen this time around with db.
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    Not really because it doesnt get brought up that much and when it does it more of the stupid crap that happened during or what not. Its not that important to us.
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    We don't talk about either of our pasts much... I just don't want to know unless I'm better than the rest of them, haha.
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    UGH!
    i HATE when he talks about when he lost his virginity
    and when he talks about the first time he tried each new position!
    GOSH!

    (okok.. it would be a lot funnier if yall knew i was his firstest and onlyiest)
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    Quote Originally Posted by Bryanna View Post
    UGH!
    i HATE when he talks about when he lost his virginity
    and when he talks about the first time he tried each new position!
    GOSH!

    (okok.. it would be a lot funnier if yall knew i was his firstest and onlyiest)


    We have kind of a weird situation with his ex - it's an extremely long story. But he dislikes talking about his ex more than anything. I used to ask him questions about it, but I don't anymore. I don't really like hearing about his past relationship.
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    we never talk in depth about the past...sometimes we'll joke here and there but that's the extent of it all
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    It doesn't bug me that much.... maybe if he talked about it all the time it would.

    We just don't talk about it that much. He has told me pretty much everything, and if I want to know all i have to do is ask.

    He was my first though, so I have nothing to share.
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    Nope, but he doesn't talk about it much at all. We've been married for over 10 yrs so it's pretty much old news.
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    my hubby doesnt talk about his past relationships. i mean i have asked him to tell me and he told me what i asked about but he doesnt TALK about it. he is not proud of his past and he doesnt want to hurt me in any way.
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    One important thing our chaplain said was not to talk about past relationships. He said there is no need and the past is in the past. We do not talk about it. No need to
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