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    umm... hmmm.... dont know how to title this one...

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    How do you KNOW when you're in love with someone?

    In my past, I thought I was "in love" twice. But with DB, I seem to have this feeling like I've never felt before. I don't know how to explain it. It's either, I'm completely infatuated with him, or I've just never actually experienced 'love' before this...

    IDK!!! lol Thoughts?? How did some of yall know with your DB/DF/DH?? And how do you determine between infatuation and love?
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    The only word that I can use to explain the way feel is "love". I almost feel like I am obsessed with him. And I can definately say that it wasn't love with the others either. I think you just know. There is no way to explain it. I think it would be infatuation if the feelings weren't mutual. You have to receive the same feelings as you are giving.
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    There really is no way to explain "love" it is so different with everyone. With DH, I just "knew" I mean, I felt safe, content and just knew I wanted to spend my life with him. We were friends for over a year before we started dating, dated a year and then got married on a whim.....to this day I look at him and can't imagine my life with anyone else. He's really my complete second half. He's my best friend, my lover, my husband, my childrens father and it just feels RIGHT.
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    I've thought myself in love quite a few times and I think I really might've been. It's different for each person because they're different people. I know I'm in love with DB because I can't imagine my life without him anymore. I'm willing to do nearly anything it takes for us to be together.

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    As soon as I meet DB it felt sooo different than anyone else, ever. We're not perfect, we have alot of problems in our relationship.. I don't know hes "the one," but I do know that he is VERY different than anyone else..

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    Quote Originally Posted by Alicia99 View Post
    The only word that I can use to explain the way feel is "love". I almost feel like I am obsessed with him. And I can definately say that it wasn't love with the others either. I think you just know. There is no way to explain it. I think it would be infatuation if the feelings weren't mutual. You have to receive the same feelings as you are giving.
    Yeah.. But I know he really cares about me & that the feelings are mutual. I mean, the stuff he says in our e-mails (since hes in Iraq) tells me that! But its hard to kinda place how I'm feeling.. I like to know whats going on, when, why & how! Especially in this kind of situation! Not to come off controlling or something! haha Like, when he & I were just dating, people would ask me what we were, & I'd ask him about it before I gave an answer because I don't like to be wrong or assume more than what's there! Basically!


    Idk.. I'm confusing! I'm sorry! I just need an outside opinion I guess! lol
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    unexplainable feeling, like i wanted to scream from the rooftops his name over and over again.
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    I get what you're saying. The feelings I have for DB...I've never had for anyone before!! I don't know how to describe it exactly, but it's like we're a part of each other....I know that sounds crazy!!! But, I'm 35 years old, so I've been around the block a few times....and back again

    Wanna hear something funny, this would have been mine & DB's first Valentines together....but we weren't together....miles apart. But I told him in his card that I didn't mind, simply knowing what we share, what we have, was all I needed for Valentines. And I meant it!
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    i think it is a totally "i just knew" sort of situation, which probably isn't much help to you, but i agree with what the other ladies said...i've never been truly in love until DF...it's so much different than anything and so amazing...

    i truly don't know what i would do without my other half, he is the half that makes me whole...

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    AWWW!! yall all talk so cute about it!!! sorry, im a sucker when i hear people talking about loving someone! im glad all yall found someone who makes you feel that way!!
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