Back in the day, I was posting on here about my future husband and worrying about whether he was husband material. We got married last year! Thanks to everyone who gave me advice. My advice is that you focus your efforts on helping out your Soldier when he is on deployment. . .it is very stressful for your Soldier and it'd be better if you just kept yourself busy for a while to try and help the Soldier out. My Soldier is going to be a company commander this weekend so I will be doing some more things to help out the company.

Thanks again to the ladies who helped me. Hopefully you know who you are. I haven't checked this page for a few years. I couldn't have picked a better man to marry. It's not "perfect" but I don't think anything is a fairytale.

God bless!