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    Getting Married Before Fiancee goes to Korea?

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    So I was a Girlfriend for 1year, then a Fiancee for 2 weeks and I'll be married in 2weeks in Blue Ridge Ga.

    My question is, has anyone gotten married quickly before? I've been married before for 7 years.. Anywya, DF wants to get married before he leaves. To be honest, I know this is going crazy. But I tried to break up with him. My reasoning was, I want him to enjoy Korea without worrying about having someone at home. I Love him like crazy, he's my best friend and my world. It was hard to put on the table.

    Anyway, we're getting married..
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    Wow! That is certainly going from one extreme to another! Wishing you the best of luck -
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    Ummmm if you don't want to get married quickly then don't.


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    Well that escalated deescalated escalated quickly.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Ms. Nutmeg View Post
    Well that escalated deescalated escalated quickly.


    OP, I wouldn't marry anyone I was having second thoughts about so quickly. Making such a huge, permanent decision based on a temporary move seems like a bad idea.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Katayoun View Post


    OP, I wouldn't marry anyone I was having second thoughts about so quickly. Making such a huge, permanent decision based on a temporary move seems like a bad idea.
    I would have to agree with you on this one!
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    Is there a reason he wants to marry you before he leaves? Military benefits? To make sure you stay "loyal" to him while he's gone? Both of those are really bad reasons to get married. Slow down if you don't want to get married that fast. Being engaged for awhile is always nice too
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    Quote Originally Posted by MarshallzmyLove View Post
    So I was a Girlfriend for 1year, then a Fiancee for 2 weeks and I'll be married in 2weeks in Blue Ridge Ga.

    My question is, has anyone gotten married quickly before? I've been married before for 7 years.. Anywya, DF wants to get married before he leaves. To be honest, I know this is going crazy. But I tried to break up with him. My reasoning was, I want him to enjoy Korea without worrying about having someone at home. I Love him like crazy, he's my best friend and my world. It was hard to put on the table.

    Anyway, we're getting married..
    From your prior post, it seems like he wants to get married quick for the extra money. In all honesty, its not that much. There are people on here that got married quickly and it worked out, but it doesn't mean that it will for you. If you aren't ready, don't get married.
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    Dear God, no. Plenty of people get married quickly. But even in just a short post, it really could not be more clear that marriage is a horrifically bad idea for you guys. Don't do it.
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    Agree with the others, if you don't want to get married, then don't. Rushing is not the way to go.

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