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    couldn't drag me away... So, DB and I broke up a few months ago, I posted something about it here, things just felt so impossible with him being in Guam and then on long underways/missions with sparse communication at times. I wasn't ready to pack up and move there, and I'm still not. We broke up because I just didn't think I could handle long distance for long term. Well, we couldn't stop talking, when we first broke up we decided we should cease communication to make it easier, but a small text here, a picture there lead talking fully like we were back together. I don't know what it was about no longer being "in a relationship" that just took the pressure off, and suddenly we could get back to just enjoying the time we did have to talk/Skype. I think that was my issue all along, my expectations were unrealistic for this kind of relationship and once the expectations went away, I was so much happier. I think I've also grown a lot in the past year as well, I no longer need a boyfriend to vent to, I've become so much stronger and independent that having DB in my life is just a wonderful bonus, instead of my whole life. I think this is turning into a ramble, so I'll wrap up the point is, me and DB are so in love, and I cant wait to see where it takes us.
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    I'm glad you are back together and happy. I hope things work out for you this time!
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    Quote Originally Posted by CourtLove View Post
    I think I've also grown a lot in the past year as well, I no longer need a boyfriend to vent to, I've become so much stronger and independent that having DB in my life is just a wonderful bonus, instead of my whole life.
    I'm so glad to read this ^^

    I'm happy you're happy!




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    thanks ladies!! The military has definitely been a huge curve ball but somehow I think well figure it out
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    Great news! Glad to hear you guys have worked it out and that you are happy which is the most important thing!
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    Awww yay!!!!
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    This is so great it sounds like you guys are in a really good place
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    Awwwww sooo happy you guys were able to work things out! LDR's are def hard but so worth it in the end!
    "She knew she loved him when 'home' went from being a place to being a person."
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    Thank you for sharing. I'm glad to hear you are happy and back together.
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