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    Loneliness...?

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    Does anyone else just feel down right lonely sometimes?

    I've been struggling with it for a while now - just this feeling of kind of sadness and loneliness and it's bleugh. I've got a great group of girlfriend who I see often and we're always chatting away in our group iMessage. I live with one of my best friends who is awesome and we get along so well and do stuff together. I'm on a placement working with mothers and babies at the moment where I get plenty of interaction...I just feel lonely, and it's lonely for DB.

    I was in uni this morning then out to lunch with my friends, and I even got to Skype DB for an hour today! What have I got to be complaining about I'm coping super well with him being 5500 miles away, or I was at least, apart from this.

    Anyone else?

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    Just hang in there It'll get better again! Do you know when you can see him again?
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    I feel you! Being in Germany alone with the dogs and cat has been really hard!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Ol' Grey Mare View Post
    Thank you

    Quote Originally Posted by Serenity View Post
    Just hang in there It'll get better again! Do you know when you can see him again?
    Yeah, it's only just less than 2 months till I get to see him (haven't seen him since January). I just keep seeing "domestic bliss" popping up around me and I just want that now, not a few more years down the line. Just to be able to be on the same continent as him for more than a few weeks a year. I know it'll get better, it's not even really that bad. Just a weak moment/bad day I think.

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    I feel you! Being in Germany alone with the dogs and cat has been really hard!
    That must be hard, especially being in a foreign country.

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    Makes two of us... hang in there..
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    Some days it just really hits you I hope your day gets better!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Violette View Post

    That must be hard, especially being in a foreign country.
    Its definitely not what I expected to happen when we planned on getting married! At least not this soon (the foreign country part, not the deployment). But it is what it is and we just have to take it day by day!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Katarina View Post
    Its definitely not what I expected to happen when we planned on getting married! At least not this soon (the foreign country part, not the deployment). But it is what it is and we just have to take it day by day!
    I'm sure things never seem to go as planned, do they? Yeah, most days I manage fine, I've got a good support network of friends and family. Just today is an off day I suppose.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Violette View Post
    I'm sure things never seem to go as planned, do they? Yeah, most days I manage fine, I've got a good support network of friends and family. Just today is an off day I suppose.
    They dont! Expect the unexpected! And I totally know what your talking about! Just gotta remember its only one day! Tomorrow will be better
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