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    In need of advice

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    I am currently searching for some advice on how to handle this new long distance relationship, Im willing to stick it out with this guy through it all but I need some help along the way and I don't want to put it on him. He is in Fort Bragg, NC. I am in Pennsylvania.
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    Ok? What ya need help with?

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    Quote Originally Posted by kateNewtothis View Post
    I am currently searching for some advice on how to handle this new long distance relationship, Im willing to stick it out with this guy through it all but I need some help along the way and I don't want to put it on him. He is in Fort Bragg, NC. I am in Pennsylvania.
    Hi and welcome - that's a pretty broad/general topic - are there specific questions or concerns you have?
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    first of all Hi and welcome OP

    tell us a little bit more why you need help and with what you need help.
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    Hi and

    Tell us a bit more about you! How long have you been dating? Have you met in person?

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    So much depends on your particular circumstances, so to begin:
    Did you know him in person before the long distance thing started?
    How long have you guys known each other, how long prior to him going away?
    Is he at basic, ait, etc, meaning WHY is he there?
    How old are you guys?
    Any kids involved?
    How did you two meet?
    Any other background?
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    Hey and welcome!
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    Have you talked to him about it and see how he feels? I'm in a similar situation, the guy I've been seeing is about to leave a year early and we've been dating for a few months. The talk hasn't happened yet, but it's bound to, he is leaving the area 16 May. With all of his stress and craziness, I haven't wanted to bring it up and have been trying to be supportive and realize it will happen. Like you, I'm willing to be there, but not so sure how he feels. I can assume, but we all know how that can turn out sometimes. Is there something in particular you're wondering about?
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    Hi there I am new to this site and lifestyle as well. What are you experiencing?

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