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10-28-2009, 11:04 AM
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we broke up....???
so im suppose to visit in 2 weeks move in january....hes my best friends cousin and when he told his aunt (so her mom) that i was moving she flipped....gave him doubts, we got in a huge fight about it cause i think its dumb that he cares what ppl think. my parents were mad at first but i didnt care because this is what i want to be happy and now they r ok with it. i just think if he really loves me then he shouldnt care waht they think. well now we broke up last night n im just torn. he wont answer my calls or txt me back today and i really thought he would have txt me by now. is this really the end? what do i do with my airline ticket? its nonrefundable. ugh this is just awful!
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Of Course I Replied YES!!
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10-28-2009, 11:11 AM
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10-28-2009, 11:16 AM
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 Give him a few days without texting and calling him. If he isn't willing to communicate with you after that, then I would feel that it isn't worth it. It's a red flag for me in a relationship if a man is easily swayed by other people. Just my opinion.
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10-28-2009, 11:34 AM
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Personally, it sounds immature that one person, like his aunt, could sway his opinion. Maybe he just wasn't really ready and could just be looking for an excuse so he doesn't upset you?
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10-28-2009, 12:35 PM
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OP, I'm so sorry
 I agree with the other ladies, give him some time. After, if he doesnt respond, it's time to move on.
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