He broke up with me - Long Distance Love

dancerdixy · 10-28-2009, 08:56 AM

db broke up with me. He says he's screwing up with work, and it's because he feels empty.. I need some hugs and good vibes...he was so perfect for me. He didn't care about any of my problems or anything.

this is gonna hurt for a while, isn't it?

so, we had a small talk, and I realized that he still loves me, but he has to do this... I understand completely.

So during the small talk I realized how I missed also losing my best friend. So I told him...said I miss telling you about anything and everything! So even though after every time we talk he leaves a "love ya" we're still best friends, and yes, I still love him, but I realize why he can't do it. But what I love is being his best friend again. Not having my best friend for two weeks sucked! lol. I'm back in a pretty good place right now

Jumpin Jollyfish · 10-28-2009, 08:57 AM

I'm so sorry darlin.. I'm in the same boat.. Yes it will probably hurt for a little while but you'll get past it.

bb1982 · 10-28-2009, 08:57 AM

I'm sorry you're going through this.

HeatherNichole · 10-28-2009, 08:58 AM

I'm so sorry honey! Yes it will hurt for awhile...and it will be hard...but remind yourself that these things happen for a reason...start taking care of you and focusing on YOU right now!

PM if you need anything!

MissTori1987 · 10-28-2009, 09:00 AM

First and foremost,

. Second, I live by the quote "everything happens for a reason." It may be difficult to see it now, but perhaps things ended because there is someone better for you. Is this going to hurt? I am sure it will. I say first work on being okay (with the situation) go out and do things for yourself. Treat yourself to a pedicure or a new outfit. Recovering from a break up takes time, but you will be okay. You never know perhaps down the road you two will be reunited. Keep your chin up!

BuckeyeAGF · 10-28-2009, 09:02 AM

Originally Posted by MissTori1987

First and foremost,

. Second, I live by the quote "everything happens for a reason." It may be difficult to see it now, but perhaps things ended because there is someone better for you. Is this going to hurt? I am sure it will. I say first work on being okay (with the situation) go out and do things for yourself. Treat yourself to a pedicure or a new outfit. Recovering from a break up takes time, but you will be okay. You never know perhaps down the road you two will be reunited. Keep your chin up!

I couldn't have said this better myself.

Mrz. Robinson · 10-28-2009, 09:06 AM

It will get better in time.

Nicole-anw · 10-28-2009, 09:30 AM

im so sorry

hope things get better

AML7609 · 10-28-2009, 09:42 AM

Originally Posted by MissTori1987

First and foremost,

. Second, I live by the quote "everything happens for a reason." It may be difficult to see it now, but perhaps things ended because there is someone better for you. Is this going to hurt? I am sure it will. I say first work on being okay (with the situation) go out and do things for yourself. Treat yourself to a pedicure or a new outfit. Recovering from a break up takes time, but you will be okay. You never know perhaps down the road you two will be reunited. Keep your chin up!

EXACTLY!

Ducky · 10-28-2009, 11:10 AM

How long were you together?

10-28-2009, 08:56 AM	#1 (permalink)
dancerdixy Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 555 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 65% Longevity: 2%	He broke up with me db broke up with me. He says he's screwing up with work, and it's because he feels empty.. I need some hugs and good vibes...he was so perfect for me. He didn't care about any of my problems or anything. this is gonna hurt for a while, isn't it? so, we had a small talk, and I realized that he still loves me, but he has to do this... I understand completely. So during the small talk I realized how I missed also losing my best friend. So I told him...said I miss telling you about anything and everything! So even though after every time we talk he leaves a "love ya" we're still best friends, and yes, I still love him, but I realize why he can't do it. But what I love is being his best friend again. Not having my best friend for two weeks sucked! lol. I'm back in a pretty good place right now __________________ "You'll never know how strong you are, until being strong is the only choice you have left." Last edited by dancerdixy; 11-12-2009 at 02:35 PM. Reason: new info

10-28-2009, 08:57 AM	#2 (permalink)
Jumpin Jollyfish I am a Pielott.. Pylot... Pilote... I FLY PLANES Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Cincinnati, OH Posts: 3,169 Blog Entries: 1 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 60% Longevity: 16%	I'm so sorry darlin.. I'm in the same boat.. Yes it will probably hurt for a little while but you'll get past it. __________________ Proud Wifey to Mushortgurl03!!!

10-28-2009, 08:57 AM	#3 (permalink)
bb1982 just call me Brando Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: soon to be Kbay, Hawaii!! Posts: 1,706 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 31% Longevity: 12%	I'm sorry you're going through this. __________________

10-28-2009, 08:58 AM	#4 (permalink)
HeatherNichole Senior Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Kansas Posts: 700 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 53% Longevity: 3%	I'm so sorry honey! Yes it will hurt for awhile...and it will be hard...but remind yourself that these things happen for a reason...start taking care of you and focusing on YOU right now! PM if you need anything! __________________ I am a hot pot....be jealous

10-28-2009, 09:00 AM	#5 (permalink)
MissTori1987 Snuggie + Nibblet = FOREVER Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: Georgia Posts: 1,680 Blog Entries: 1 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 66% Longevity: 24%	First and foremost, . Second, I live by the quote "everything happens for a reason." It may be difficult to see it now, but perhaps things ended because there is someone better for you. Is this going to hurt? I am sure it will. I say first work on being okay (with the situation) go out and do things for yourself. Treat yourself to a pedicure or a new outfit. Recovering from a break up takes time, but you will be okay. You never know perhaps down the road you two will be reunited. Keep your chin up! __________________

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10-28-2009, 09:06 AM	#7 (permalink)
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Nicole-anw My Reason To Breathe [♥] Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: Dan-sucks-ville Virginia Posts: 190 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 24% Longevity: 2%	im so sorry hope things get better __________________