He broke up with me - Page 3 - Long Distance Love

10-28-2009, 01:50 PM

Originally Posted by dancerdixy

9 months but it still hurts pretty bad, he's the first person I gave my full heart to...he says he's confused and I asked him to talk to other people before he makes a decision

. why?

I'm offering you

because I know you are hurting, but I'm confused as to why you would want him to or he would want to talk to other people before he makes a decision? Shouldn't he be the best one to judge how he feels or what he wants? If it were me, IMHO, I wouldn't want a guy to stay with me simply because other people talked him into it.

dancerdixy · 10-28-2009, 01:51 PM

Originally Posted by ProudArmyWifeD

I'm offering you

because I know you are hurting, but I'm confused as to why you would want him to or he would want to talk to other people before he makes a decision? Shouldn't he be the best one to judge how he feels or what he wants? If it were me, IMHO, I wouldn't want a guy to stay with me simply because other people talked him into it.

he sounds really confused.

Smurfette · 10-28-2009, 02:05 PM

Sending many hugs your way.

mmesina729 · 10-28-2009, 04:19 PM

sending lots of hugs your way! give it time. everything will be alright

armygirl1503 · 10-28-2009, 04:24 PM

Yes it is going to hurt for a while.... but I am serious when I say everything happens for a reason.... I was in ur shoes once and it really did take me a while to get over it... but it means that either the timing wasnt right and he will come back or he isnt the one for u! U gotta keep ur head up and keep thinking positively! If you need anything or wanna talk PM me

dancerdixy · 10-28-2009, 06:41 PM

thank you

armygirl1503 · 10-28-2009, 06:41 PM

Sometimes it is nice to just talk to someone who has been through the situation before

BlinkyBear · 10-28-2009, 06:43 PM

Serpentine · 10-28-2009, 06:44 PM

He is talking to other people...as in NOT you, deciding if he's leaving you? I know you love this man, but give him hell over that!

dancerdixy · 10-28-2009, 06:45 PM

Originally Posted by Serpentine

He is talking to other people...as in NOT you, deciding if he's leaving you? I know you love this man, but give him hell over that!

I told him to...I feel one sided and I want him to get all sides

what did you mean before when you said that was out of the blue?

10-28-2009, 04:19 PM	#24 (permalink)
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armygirl1503 Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Hillsboro/ Tilton, New Hampshire Posts: 314 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 0% Longevity: 6%	Yes it is going to hurt for a while.... but I am serious when I say everything happens for a reason.... I was in ur shoes once and it really did take me a while to get over it... but it means that either the timing wasnt right and he will come back or he isnt the one for u! U gotta keep ur head up and keep thinking positively! If you need anything or wanna talk PM me __________________ I my wifey KittyCatie

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10-28-2009, 02:05 PM	#23 (permalink)
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Serpentine I know where you blog Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: MD Posts: 7,914 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 49% Longevity: 23%	He is talking to other people...as in NOT you, deciding if he's leaving you? I know you love this man, but give him hell over that! __________________ 07-14-06 Andrew & Lauren